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Who are these voluptuous, coquettish creatures called "women"? Why can they make us so excited and unable to control ourselves?
Do you want to know where the primitive desire in your heart comes from and where it goes? We will start with "libido" and explain to you the principles of human sexual attraction. Of course, these simple truths will make you more comfortable and at ease in relationships between men and women.
This is a scene that has appeared in many movies: a man is stuck in a traffic jam, feeling frustrated and angry. Just then, a pretty girl crossing the road caught his attention. She was extremely alluring, especially the way she "twisted" across the road in her high heels, which made him scratch his head and eager to give it a try.
If you have had similar experiences, there is no need to feel embarrassed because of your lustful desires. This is a normal reaction for men. Usually at times like this, the dopamine in your brain plays the role of conductor - it is it that makes you produce a series of physiological reactions and psychological actions. When you find the object of your desire, the neurotransmitter dopamine lights up areas deep in the brain, triggering feelings of pleasure and motivation. You’ll feel your cheeks flush and your heart rate quicken (cocaine has the same effect). Sexual attraction is like a dose of happy drug, which makes people unable to control themselves and reluctant to leave. Want to know what this means? Your brain controls all your sexual responses.
But why doesn't she respond to you by paying attention to her? It's not because she saw your wedding ring, it's because a woman's brain works completely differently than yours. All you care about is the face, the figure, the fantasy and the possession; but at some biological level, she doesn't care much about these. Her goal is a male who can give her healthy offspring and protect and provide for her and her offspring. This may sound a bit like "Animal World", but it's true. You know, people can't resist their animal instincts.
Do you think it’s interesting? That’s just the point. Our article is to tell you the mysterious role that the brain plays in heterosexual relationships, so that you can learn to control this real "sexual organ" located between the two ears, rather than the small "puppet" located between the legs.
1. Why do women always stare at your middle finger? Because the middle finger can tell them everything. Researchers at the University of Liverpool have confirmed that the length of a man's middle finger is related to the amount of testosterone he received during his embryonic period. Of course, it also has something to do with your little brother. The more testosterone you have, the longer your penis will grow. Interesting, isn't it: the finger that indicates your masculinity is the same finger on which she will wear the wedding ring. Is this a coincidence?
2. Why do men need to pay attention to their testosterone levels throughout their lives? Compared with men, women are more inclined to settle down and build a stable family due to their brain structure and hormone secretion. But men with low testosterone levels are more likely to be committed to family life than men with high testosterone levels. Studies have shown that men with high testosterone levels are 43% more likely to divorce than men with low testosterone levels, and 38% more likely to have an affair. The reason may be that low levels of testosterone make men more cooperative. If you feel like you're not manly enough, go to the gym - building muscle can increase testosterone secretion. It is recommended that you exercise before dating, because the testosterone level in men will reach its peak within 48 hours after weightlifting training.
3. Why men shouldn’t get married before the age of 25. It’s simple. The male brain is not fully developed before the age of 25. Even though his sexual organs are ready to go, his brain's prefrontal cortex (PFC) is still developing. This part of the brain is responsible for important actions of men, such as judging right and wrong, controlling impulses, organizing arrangements, planning for the future, etc.
4. Why beautiful women make men stupid. Maybe you have had the "foolish" behavior of giving a hundred-dollar tip to a beautiful waitress as if you were possessed. Why? Beautiful women activate a man's limbic system (certain structures in the brainstem responsible for emotions) when the prefrontal cortex (PFC) should be working, causing the brain's judgment system to fail. That's why Las Vegas casinos hire so many pretty girls in miniskirts and low-cut tops to walk around the casinos giving out free drinks - a scene that encourages men's self-judgment to go to waste.
5. How to pull yourself back from the brink of danger?
When you are faced with the temptation of a beautiful woman, just remember: her beauty is fleeting, but your wrong decisions will make you regret it for the rest of your life. This is an easy decision, right? ——Let your PFC fully fulfill its responsibilities.
6. Why are you obsessed with porn but she has little interest in it? It’s not because men are superficial, but because the visual part of the male brain is more developed and easier to arouse their emotions. Using advanced imaging equipment, researchers found that after watching the same 30-minute sexual video, the part of the male brain that controls emotion and motivation was much more active than that of the female brain - even though both male and female subjects were equally interested in the video. This may be one of the reasons why men are addicted to porn: for men it is not just porn, but real people. In real life, women often capture men's brains by teasing their sensitive vision. How can we overcome the tyrannical control of the optic nerve? The answer is to activate your PFC. Ask yourself, "What do I want to get out of this affair?" This kind of question can help you focus on the momentary visual arousal.
7. How to make your nose stimulate your penis to erect The olfactory bulb structure at the top of the nose has a direct connection with the diaphragm tissue in the brain that controls sexual arousal. When the cells in your nose are stimulated, they send signals to your sexual instincts, telling your penis to "pay attention" and "stand up." You probably know what smell turns you on, but what about her? Studies have found that women are most easily aroused by a chemical called AND. Where can this substance be found? In men’s sweat, hair, and skin. Next time you will know that putting your clothes on her will not only show your thoughtfulness, but also arouse her desire. Hehe...this is what they call "the drunkard's intention is not to drink."
8. Why sometimes you can’t get an erection during sex? Maybe your penis is a little “stage frightened” during an important performance. Being nervous about performing comes from the fear of being judged or not being able to last as long as expected. Your body processes this tension as a threat from the outside world, and the nervous system sets up a "fight or flight" response, sending chemical signals in the body to protect our bodies: our heart rate speeds up, our muscles tense, and blood flows from our hands, feet, and penis to the large muscles in our shoulders and buttocks, preparing us to fight or flee. Of course, this is not a good mechanism of action in bed.
9. Why do women always “leave” men behind?
The pathways in women's brains that connect to the right side of the brain, which is prone to negative emotions, are more developed, so women are more susceptible to depression than men. The right hemisphere of the brain allows women to better see the big picture and long-term vision of a relationship, so they always realize that the relationship is not working out long before men do.
10. Should I leave her or stay?
Only your PFC knows the answer. Men with healthy PFC activity have better emotional communication skills, can concentrate for longer periods of time, and are more likely to be good husbands. Men with overactive PFC are easily distracted, confrontational, and argumentative. This makes them objects of rejection by women. Similarly, men with an inactive PFC are impulsive (vulnerable in the face of things), easily distracted (poor hearing), easily bored (often finding excuses to take a break), and like to constantly pursue new loves and excitement (things that shouldn't happen always happen in the wrong place with the wrong people). Therefore, you should always pay attention to protecting your PFC from being damaged, so that you can become a man popular with women. The way to do this is to quit smoking, drinking and caffeine.
11. Why do guys who play music always get girls?
There is an interesting experiment: Finnish scientists asked 8 volunteers to undergo brain scans while they were reaching orgasm. The results showed that the blood flow to all the volunteers' brains decreased during orgasm, while the blood flow to the right prefrontal cortex of the brain increased sharply - the same thing happens when artists (including musicians, of course) are creating art. So... who told you to give up playing guitar in the first place? It’s not too late to regret now.
12. Why do women say "Oh, God!" when they orgasm?
This certainly has nothing to do with you. As an indispensable assistant to orgasm, the right hemisphere of the brain is also known as the "God" zone of the brain. When scientists stimulated the right hemisphere of the brain, the subjects had experiences related to religion and spirituality. Therefore, it is easy to understand that when she moans "Oh, God" in sexual excitement, her brain is connecting her feelings of pleasure to the spiritual area deep in her brain. Poor nuns, they were close to that God but had no chance to experience this "God".
13. Why does oral sex turn her on, especially when she swallows the semen?
Prostaglandins (fatty acids in semen) can be absorbed into the female vagina and play a role in the regulation of female hormones and mood. Furthermore, women who regularly perform oral sex on their partners are less likely to develop preeclampsia, a dangerous syndrome of elevated blood pressure that women may experience before becoming pregnant. In addition, sperm carries a substance called TGFbeta, which can increase the activity of killer cells in women's bodies - these killer cells can kill bad cells that cause cancer. Next time, make her beg to serve you.
14. Why can foot massage be used as foreplay for sex?
It sounds magical, but stimulating the reflex areas on the soles of the feet can directly affect the sexual organs - this is why women pay so much attention to shoes. The human body has 36,000 nerve endings concentrated in the soles of the feet. If you explore these nerve endings carefully, you will find that each one corresponds to an organ in the human body. If your girlfriend's feet are stuck in high heels all day, she'll come home with sore toes and a sore back. Use your thumb and index finger to gently pull, twist, and rub her toes, which will make her feel much more comfortable. Then use your knuckles to rub her heels in circles, which will relieve her back pain. Her rewards for doing so will make your efforts worthwhile. |
