Six common misunderstandings about impotence Misunderstanding 1: It is quite common to regard the failure of the first few sexual intercourses as impotence. In fact, it violates the principle that there must be a few months of adjustment period after the couple starts sexual life. There are also some newlyweds who have poor sex life because they tasted the forbidden fruit before marriage. At that time, they were in a complex mood of groping, trying, nervousness, fear, etc., with a high failure rate, thus leaving a shadow of their poor sexual ability in their minds. This situation should have an adjustment period in the sexual intercourse after marriage. Misconception 2: Considering the inability to arouse a woman's orgasm as impotence is an even bigger mistake. As long as the man's penis can become erect and inserted, and he can complete ejaculation and reach orgasm through sexual intercourse, it is not impotence. One of the characteristics of male and female sexual function is that "men are faster and women are slower", so if the man has ejaculated and the woman has not yet reached orgasm, this is a physiological phenomenon. At most, it is a problem of disharmonious sex life, and it should never be considered as impotence. Misconception 3: Thinking that masturbation will inevitably cause impotence. Modern medicine has proven that the occurrence of this type of impotence is not essentially due to masturbation damaging the sexual organs, but is most likely caused by psychological factors caused by long-term masturbation. Even if a person masturbates for a long time, he may not suffer from impotence as long as he can resolve the above-mentioned psychological "knots". Misconception 4: Thinking that a lack of obvious erectile response indicates impotence. Many young people have reported that their penises would naturally become erect when they watched certain pornographic films, TV shows, books or pictures, or fantasized about a girl they liked. However, this reaction is not obvious now. Are they suffering from impotence? Wrong! The answer is simple. Since there is no complete sexual stimulation from the spouse, including visual, auditory, tactile, olfactory and other aspects of sexual stimulation, and since there is no real sexual intercourse practice, whether the penis is erect or not cannot be used as a complete diagnosis of impotence. Misconception 5: Some people believe that difficulty in erection after changing their sexual partners is due to impotence. His sex life with his wife was normal and his erectile function was good, but he was unable to recover during sexual intercourse in the extramarital affair. On the contrary, some people may have poor erections when having sex with their wives due to lack of novelty, but have excellent sex when having an affair. These are all situations that occur after the sexual intercourse partner changes. In a real sense, a person with this "selective" impotence is not a real impotence patient. Myth 6: Frequent nocturnal emission will inevitably lead to impotence. It is normal for a healthy unmarried man to have nocturnal emissions 1-2 times a month, but 4-5 times or more is too much. This may be related to inflammation of the reproductive and urinary organs or certain lifestyle factors, such as wearing tight pants, sleeping in a part of the body that is too hot at night, and excessive fatigue during the day. But modern medicine has made it clear that there is no necessary connection between spermatorrhea and impotence! |