How to find orgasm in bed when a woman is thirty (adult novel about sex knowledge)

A woman's orgasm can be cultivated, just like the process of a flower blooming; good sex makes a woman more beautiful, and a life with orgasm is full of vitality and fun. People say that women become more beautiful after the age of 30. Perhaps their secret is that they have discovered their own climax.
Did you orgasm?
More than one woman has admitted that she would marry her partner for no other reason than that he was the first man to give her an orgasm. But men are by no means the only factor that determines whether or not a woman has an orgasm. It’s just that the orgasm is like an elf playing hide-and-seek with a woman, making her anxious and confused, unable to figure out what exactly creates it.
Is it really that important whether or not you have an orgasm? Women who have never experienced an orgasm will feel uneasy after being asked this question. Is it because they have never experienced it that they think it is not important? This ambivalence most directly shows the relationship between orgasm and life. It is like something that women always want to possess but can never completely conquer (such as men or fashion). Maybe orgasm is really a trap set by God for women because he is jealous of women.
Numbers: Within the first month of their marriage, 51% of brides have no orgasm due to lack of experience; through constant exploration and mutual cooperation, only 25% of women have no orgasm after one year, and 10% of women will never have an orgasm for the rest of their lives. Women who can orgasm do not always have an orgasm during intercourse. Only 53% of women have an orgasm every time they have sexual intercourse, and having an orgasm once out of every 4 times is considered good.
There are as many descriptions of orgasm as there are women. Some people say it is an itchy feeling; some say it is a chill running down the spine; some can only describe the feeling in the toes, "it makes my toes curl up"; some are more violent, saying it is painful and so painful that it drives people crazy. Of course, it is more common to say that it is a feeling of ascending to heaven.
The ambiguity and variability of orgasmic feelings may be the reason why women find it difficult to grasp orgasm.
The first stage of climax: Suspension and Floating. The tension grows to the end. Although the intense exercise can continue, there is already a momentary feeling of "suspension" or "floating", like a wave of passion that gradually increases and expands. This sensation lasts only a moment and is accompanied or followed by an isolated surge of intense sensory awareness centered in the clitoris and radiating upward into the pelvis. What occurs simultaneously is a loss of overall sensory discrimination ability.
The second stage of orgasm: Falling and opening, a warm feeling starts from the pelvis and spreads throughout the body. At this time, the woman can strongly feel an extreme pleasure, like a pulsating wave of a warm current that gradually spreads through the pelvis to the whole body like a mild electric shock.
Sometimes the fingers and back will tremble from time to time, flashing like lightning, and the thigh muscles will have a similar reaction. This feeling only lasts about 2 seconds and then disappears. At this time, the woman still vaguely feels "falling" and "opening" her body, causing liquid to overflow. Some women compare the feeling of orgasm to the mild pains of childbirth.
Stage 3 of Orgasm: Trance-Isolation Stage 3 is characterized by an awareness of an involuntary warm flow of blood from the pelvis to the rest of the body, culminating in genital contractions and throbbing tremors ("pelvic cramps") that culminate in orgasm. Women may experience a sense of trance, isolation (feeling completely disconnected from the outside world), or a temporary loss of consciousness, and an incredible sense of euphoria.
Basics: First experience of orgasm...
If you are a woman who has never experienced an orgasm, then the first orgasm is very important. Only after experiencing an orgasm once can you continue to cultivate the feeling of orgasm, increase the frequency of orgasm in sexual life, and gradually shape a perfect sex life.
Some women cannot or only occasionally reach orgasm during intercourse alone, but can orgasm during masturbation, sexual dreams, stimulation with a vibrator, and direct penetration by themselves or their partners during intercourse.
Psychologically, women can reach orgasm without sexual intercourse.
For example, women have similar "wet dreams" behavior as men, which is reaching orgasm in a dream, but many women are not aware of this physical reaction of theirs. Because after a woman wakes up from a dream, there will be no obvious signs indicating that she has reached orgasm, some may only feel slight tension and pain in the lower abdomen. The reason why women can reach orgasm in dreams or fantasies lies in psychology. A woman's sexual excitement comes from the inside out. It is difficult for a woman to become excited simply by physical or external visual stimulation. Only when there is inner impulse can a woman reach orgasm through excitement. So psychological excitement is the first step to climax.
Women who have experienced orgasm all have one experience: they are already excited before the orgasm comes, they have strong desires, they want it very much, and they are in a relaxed mood, which makes it easiest for them to get into the situation.
The basis of physiological orgasm is that a woman can arouse her sexual desire herself. Even God cannot make a woman without desire reach orgasm. So desire is the forerunner of orgasm.
Women's sexual desire fluctuates, but what is more predictable than men's sexual desire is that basically women's desire changes in a cyclical manner, corresponding to their menstrual cycle.
A woman's sexual desire is strongest almost always within two days before and seven days after her period. Especially it is stronger before menstruation than after menstruation.