Do this to extend the shelf life of your sex life (sex knowledge adult novel)

"I have been dating my girlfriend for almost ten years. At the beginning, we were very compatible sexually and both of us enjoyed it. But after the second or third year of our relationship, I started to lose interest in her. Now I have almost no interest in her at all. I don't even want to kiss her and sometimes I even reject her..."
I still love her so why don't I want to touch her?
An anonymous netizen recently posted a distressed message on the Xisi version of the National Taiwan University PTT Business Forum, asking for help. He emphasized, "I am sure I still love my girlfriend and enjoy sex, but I don't know why I am not interested in her?"
Zheng Shaoyu, director of the Taipei Veterans General Hospital Yuanshan and Suao branches, said that many couples are like this. When they first get together, they are "sexually excited" and even have several rounds of sex every day without feeling tired. However, as time goes by, the novelty lacks, and the sex that was originally pleasurable has gone from "every day to almost nothing." Instead, it has become a chore that they are afraid to avoid.
Is it possible to not get tired of eating the same dish every day?
Zheng Shaoyu once heard a joke about a couple who had been married for many years. Later, before having sex every time, the husband would go to the bathroom and close the door to stay there for a while, and the time he stayed there was getting longer and longer. The curious wife finally couldn't stand it anymore, and one day she leaned over to take a look, only to see her husband with his eyes closed, mumbling to himself, "She is not my wife, she is not my wife."
"Just like going to a restaurant, you can't order the same dish every time." He emphasized that monogamy is the most suitable system for human society, but it must be managed with care to maintain "sexual interest" and make the relationship last a long time.
Create an atmosphere and don't let sex become old-fashioned. He suggested that both husband and wife should know how to create an atmosphere. Sex is not just about having sex. Fingers, shoulders... can all become "sexual organs". Creating an intimate atmosphere with care, changing postures and occasions, etc. can make sex more enjoyable.
Zheng Shaoyu, who used to teach "Sexual Happiness" at university, always had full classes. He found that young people are full of curiosity about sex, but the Internet is too developed, and many young people get their sexual knowledge from the Internet or videos. Not only are they easily misled by exaggerated expressions and develop wrong ideas, they may even go astray because they do not understand the boundaries of the law.
The length of the frequency cannot measure sexual happiness