Breaking the "routine" allows us to have "random" sex (sex knowledge adult novel)

Learning how to make love is not just about putting "that part" of two bodies together. In addition to a variety of techniques, there is also not a single mode for making love. You might as well switch from the "fixed mode" to the "random mode" and enjoy the unknown and fresh pleasure!
Making love is not just about the intercourse of organs. Learning to make love involves much more than that, such as exploring your own and your partner's sexual preferences, understanding each other's sexual attitudes, and developing a sexual life pattern that makes both parties feel extremely comfortable and excited.
The learning process of mastering lovemaking is often not a one-time learning process, nor is it learning everything in one go. Rather, it is a series of observations, attempts, and improvements. For some women, their spouses are their primary sex teachers and guides; for other women, they develop their sexual wisdom and skills through independent reflection and experimentation. Their experiences were varied, but they led again and again to the same conclusion: learning to accept yourself is the cornerstone of learning how to make love, and their experiences also revealed some universal principles.
Making love is not just about mastering technical skills. Shalu is a 30-year-old violinist. She was only 23 when she married Kevin. She felt that everyone else knew how to have sex except her, so in order to satisfy her husband, she read a lot of books to learn the techniques of sexual intercourse. She suggested two or three different sexual positions every night, thinking that this might satisfy Kevin. On the contrary, Kevin felt something was wrong. One night, she asked frankly, "Do you like having sex with me?" Shalu felt embarrassed, and after thinking about it, she said frankly, "No, I don't."
Kevin asked her, "What changes do you want me to make to satisfy you?" Sarah suddenly realized that the key to the problem was on her side. When making love, she just followed the procedures written in the book rigidly instead of following her own feelings and desires. Therefore, during the whole process of making love, she was too nervous and too rigid, and did not enjoy the natural joy at all.
Later, they adopted the approach that the man took the initiative and the woman took the passive approach. She completely forgot about herself and enjoyed the joy of love to her heart's content. Both parties were very satisfied with the result. From this, Shalu realized a new philosophy of lovemaking: lovemaking is not about what you are doing, but about what you are feeling.
The mode of sex life is not single, you might as well switch from "fixed mode" to "random mode"
In addition to the conventional sex life in bed at night, there can also be all kinds of impromptu and very fascinating sex life. Shalu recalled that one day she had just finished showering, wrapped herself in a bath towel, and walked into the living room where Kevin was sitting on the big sofa watching TV. Sarah was in a very good mood at the time. She snuggled in Kevin's arms and whispered intimate words to him, then teased him jokingly, which resulted in a very passionate lovemaking. Although it was completely improvised, it was extremely exciting.
Shalu said: "I was so happy because I saw that I had the charm to arouse him. Afterwards, I felt that this break from the routine of sex life was a little inappropriate, but Kevin said it was great. This gave me a new understanding of sex life. If Kevin had any complaints about this sex life, I would have buried this diversified sex life pattern forever."
Although sex education experts often advise people not to put "shackles" on their sex lives,
But some prejudices still bind many people. For example, men must be on top, and sex life means having intercourse;
Sexual intercourse must have an orgasm, otherwise it is a failure. Only vaginal orgasm is a real orgasm, and so on.
All of the above seem to be elements of "normal" sexual intercourse, and if they are violated, there would be something wrong. In fact, these are not elements of every sexual intercourse between every couple. "Sex life" has a wider range and more content