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How to please a person in bed is not an innate instinct. No matter how attentive or passionate a man is, he cannot learn how to make a woman go wild without interactive communication. Therefore, after each sex, a woman needs to tell the man in a gentle way what to do to make her reach a more perfect climax, so that she can look forward to a better performance next time!
A perfect oral sex performance is not just about the tongue going in and out and random licking without any feeling. Many men don’t know what kind of wonderful feeling women want. The reason is that women always take into account men’s face and self-esteem, and keep their true feelings in their hearts and are unwilling to express them. Some women are embarrassed to say bold words like "lick me" or "suck me there", so men often cannot understand whether the woman feels comfortable or can reach orgasm when they are working hard between her thighs. At this time, women may as well take the initiative and tell your man how to satisfy himself during oral sex.
Although oral sex is an easy art to learn and practice, there is only one way to learn excellent oral sex techniques, and that is to ask your female partner directly. Don't ever think that this is a shameful thing. A woman knows her body best. She can clearly and accurately tell the man the location of her sensitive areas and how to caress them. Most people tend to turn such a beautiful thing as lovemaking into a formulaic thing. Therefore, it is better to communicate boldly face to face, or even use body language to guide the other person to open up, so that every passionate person can become an expert in pleasing their partner!
Tip 1 - Sweet Talk "Whenever I breathe quickly, raise my hips and hold his head tightly, my man will not let me go and will continue to give me oral sex, which makes me feel extremely comfortable!" Miss A once told her boyfriend very clearly that he can observe every little movement of hers in order to give the most perfect performance.
How to tell your man that he's doing something wrong during foreplay In fact, it is not necessary. As long as you use the volume of moans, soothing gasps, muscle contractions as you approach orgasm, and even every sweet word you say, men will know what movements to make in what parts of the body will cause different physical reactions in women.
When talking in bed, never mention anything negative or about the other person's poor performance. In addition to not discouraging his morale, you also need to add some interest. You can generously say in a man's ear: "This feels so good!", "Yes! Right here, don't stop!", "Slow down, be gentle, it feels so good!" On the contrary, if a man hears "No good!" in bed, it will cause him to be impatient with sex.
Tip 2 - A perfect performance "I spread my legs and closed my eyes on the bed, imagining myself making love while caressing every sensitive part of my body. I asked him to sit on the sofa and learn how to please me. This way, not only did he know exactly what I wanted, but he also felt particularly excited!" It is very critical for Miss A to let the other party know correctly where to start.
In fact, the art of oral sex is easier said than done! There is a way to increase the passion index, which is to let your male partner watch you masturbate. For a man, watching the woman he likes playing with her body is as beautiful as a dream. However, for a woman, it takes great courage to perform masturbation in front of a male partner.
Light a scented candle, drink a glass of red wine to make your face a passionate pink, and then put on some sexy lingerie that is barely visible. Once you are ready, it is your "Perfect show time"!
Not only can you caress your own body, you can also guide your partner's hands to make the same movements and ask him to try to use his tongue to make the same caressing effect as his fingers. In the process, you can also test whether the other person has learned the skills from your performance.
Step 3 - Come in! Baby, "I think when she raised her hips when I licked her, showing a happy expression and pushing my head deeper into her private parts, she was really sexy! And she didn't feel her self-esteem was violated. If she was not willing to tell me boldly and directly what to do to make her feel comfortable, then I would never learn how to create the best foreplay." Miss A's boyfriend talked about his feelings.
When the oral sex process reaches the stage of burning desire and the woman is ready for the man to enter, women can try to pull their partner's body close to themselves and arch their body to indicate that the man can boldly attack their body, or put pillows under their hips and waist to form a posture that allows smooth entry.
Tip 4 - Kiss and Talk
Miss A said: "My boyfriend hugged me and kissed me deeply. When he hesitated about how to proceed, I had to tell him how much I liked his kissing skills and sex skills. In every subsequent sex, he would be happy to do anything to please me, including oral sex, of course."
Men can learn more about the meaning of sex from a passionate kiss. It is recommended that you let the man feel the pleasure of oral sex from your lip movements, and then ask him to give you a blowjob. Therefore, as long as the woman is willing to say that she likes the man to be between her legs and use his mouth, tongue, and hot breath to give her oral sex, it means that she has strong encouragement and desire for such an action, and the man can learn from it the pleasure of oral sex.
For example, you can design a more erotic way of playing the game. Bend the man's palm into a depression, and then the woman uses her tongue and lips to lick it, as if simulating to tell the other person how to give a comfortable oral sex. This will make the man more excited and fully understand the steps of oral sex. Therefore, guiding dialogue is a very important key in the oral sex process and can motivate the other party to rekindle their desire.
Men usually have many ways and steps to make love, but they often lack the right points and careful links, so women play the role of guide and cooperate with each other for perfect sex. In bed, two people are no longer strangers to each other, so they can boldly express their primitive desires and are good at using any form of communication to allow both parties to meet their needs in an intimate relationship.
Tip 5 - Relaxation for women "Whenever my menstrual period is about to come, the smell there becomes stronger. I like to take a shower in the bathroom or lie in the bathtub. On the one hand, it can keep it clean and avoid too strong smell, and on the other hand, it can relieve my unstable emotions before my menstrual period. So oral sex in the bathroom is also a good place for women to relax." Miss A said that there are times when she can't relax her nerves, and this method allows her and her boyfriend to have a more perfect oral sex.
After the above courses, both men and women should be well-trained and able to clearly master the tips and methods of oral sex. Men have already broken through their psychological defenses, but there are also areas that need adjustment at the psychological level of women. Women don't need to have too high expectations for the initial oral sex instruction. If they expect the other party to get complete learning effects in the first few attempts, it will cause them more psychological distress and unhappiness.
Moreover, women often dislike their private parts. No matter how many flattering words a man says during oral sex, such as "You smell so good there!", "You look so beautiful there, I love it!", etc., women will still avoid their bodies and let men serve them. In fact, most men don’t care. As long as both parties love each other and reach a consensus and maintain the cleanliness of their private parts, women don’t have to care too much about the smell and appearance of their private parts. On the contrary, many men believe that the special scent of women is a unique and powerful aphrodisiac in the world.
For such a wonderful sexual process as oral sex, you only need to relax, grasp the tricks and integrate the ideas of both parties to complete a 100% perfect foreplay.
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◎ Men’s Skills and Strategies - According to experts and scholars, some men use special methods to lead their female companions into a more unrestrained world of lust.
1. 60-second passionate kiss: The man can place his tongue flat on the deep part of the woman's vulva, vibrate and lick it gently and slowly, even for more than 60 seconds, until the woman's vulva becomes wet. This method can stimulate every sensitive part and nerve of a woman's body, thereby achieving the effect of oral sex. If a woman meets a more patient man and uses excellent techniques, she will be able to achieve complete physical liberation.
2. Women’s sensual stimulation Many men feel that women wearing revealing clothes or underwear will make them feel more excited! When the woman is wearing silk underwear, the man can blow on her private parts, bite them gently, or caress them with the tip of his tongue through the thin underwear. This method is sometimes more stimulating than being naked. And whether touching the woman's G-spot with fingers, tongue or sexual organs through a layer of soft clothing will produce another special feeling.
3. Change the location and change the mood. Oral sex is not limited to the bed. As long as you want to change your mood and add a little more interest, any place is the best place. When a woman is tenderly cooking for a man in the kitchen, he can lift her skirt inadvertently to serve her attentively; or when they are watching boring TV programs in the living room, the man can hide between the woman's legs to create some different entertainment; if you want to play the submarine game, you can also have different fun when taking a bath together.
4. The erotic magic of letters and phonetics It must be difficult for ordinary people to imagine the relationship between letters and phonetics and sex! When a man uses the flexible tip of his tongue to draw letters from A to Z and phonetic symbols from U to A on the sensitive parts of your crotch, you should be able to understand. Treating your partner's body like a work of art is a basic introduction to oral sex, and it is also the easiest way to understand and practice.
5. Add some spice to the delicious taste. Put a chilled strawberry or refreshing mint candy in your mouth, and gently stroke around the vulva. The love fluid mixed with the sweet, sour and cool taste will increase the interest index to 100 points, and it can also break the disgust of many men towards women's private parts. Of course, you can also ask your female companion to sit down, close her legs, pour champagne into the valley formed by them, and then drink the wine between her legs while licking every inch of her skin.
6. Hidden meanings are more provocative. In addition to women's moans, naughty men can use the sounds during oral sex to show the degree of wetness of the woman. The literal description of "Tsk! Tsk!" may be a bit rough, but it still allows the woman to feel her own physiological reaction while closing her eyes and enjoying it. |
