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Although men are essentially children who never grow up and always like novelty, innovation and mystery, women can completely open up another world besides "shaping beauty" to please men.
1. Give your husband a surprise every night and let him fall asleep soundly in the sudden happiness: My friend Mei’s husband is in the real estate business and often socializes until late at night before returning home. One day, after the husband came home, he saw a note under the lamp: "Hubby, the bath water is in the tub, the hangover tea is in the cup, and the warm sex is in the quilt. Mei loves you." The husband smiled, and all the fatigue of the day disappeared. He felt that his wife, who was curled up like a cat on the bed, was so charming and sweet at this moment, and he loved her very much.
2. Learn to serve a portion of love seasoning when serving delicious food: Some wives will bang the pots and pans after they finish working in the kitchen: "Husband, hurry up and wash the dishes and serve the rice. How long do you want me to serve you?" At this time, the husband will be very reluctant to help you set the table and serve the soup, and he will not show any gratitude for your hard work. Because all your hard work in the kitchen was buried by these few unromantic words. You might as well do this: after serving a few dishes that are colorful, fragrant and tasty, turn off the lights, light a few candles, then pour two glasses of mellow and fragrant red wine, and then gently call your husband out. You see, at this moment, when he is sitting in the glow of candlelight, smelling the wonderful fragrance of food on the table, his dilated pupils are full of appreciation and gratitude for you. He will double his work achievements in the future to make his life better and better.
3. Accompany your husband to exercise and participate in his hobbies: Some wives often lament that, apart from sleeping in the same bed with their husbands every night, they are always unable to fully integrate with their husbands, which leaves him room to look for a confidante outside. In fact, you might as well try to participate in all his spare time and "occupy all his positions." For example, if he goes to play football, you might as well sit in the audience with a romantic novel and wave at him from time to time to show your concern; if he likes to watch rugby games on TV, you might as well ask him a few questions about the rules of the game that you may not be interested in at the end of the game, so that he can realize that you and he "share the same breath and destiny." Over time, under your influence, he will also pay attention to your interests and hobbies. The two of them loved each other perfectly.
4. Learn to set up unexpected surprises on special holidays: For example, on wedding anniversaries or Valentine's Day, you can place some small cards or small gifts with sandalwood scent in places within his reach, such as in the closet, briefcase, or car, with your love for him written on them, so that he can smell the fragrance of love and be happy all day long. Over time, as you develop his sensitivity to love, he will respond by showing you more affection. This is bound to form a virtuous cycle and interaction of love between husband and wife.
5. Stay close to your husband at all times: Some married women do not mind “flirting” with their husbands after marriage. In fact, things like helping him shave occasionally, acting coquettishly when he is being stubborn, or playing and joking with him will make your husband feel your playfulness, cuteness, and delicate and charming texture of life. He will focus more on you and have no time to fall in love with someone else.
6. Put the interests of your husband and his family above all else: This is the best way to “tame your husband.” For example, when buying a silk scarf, she must buy two, one for herself and the other for her husband's sister. When your sister-in-law takes the scarf, she will accept your love and whisper about your magnanimity in her brother's ear. When the company distributes drinks during the Chinese New Year, you must sweat profusely to carry a box to your in-laws' family. Your mother-in-law will be touched by this, and will love you like her own daughter and praise you in front of her son. Over time, because of your selfless dedication and magnanimity, your husband's family will form a united front with you and consider your interests everywhere. When your husband sees that your status and prestige in his family are gradually improving and becoming more solid, he will admire you and stop being unfaithful.
In short, if you want your marriage to be lively, fresh and stable, in addition to pleasing your husband's eyes with beauty treatments, you should also add surprises, joy, prestige and exquisite life interest to every detail of your life anytime and anywhere. In this way, two people can stay together for life. |
