There are three reasons for diverse sexual interests: 1. Increase sexual pleasure, sexual satisfaction and sexual interest, making sex life more colorful; 2. New attempts and new ways will bring new feelings and experiences, which will help overcome the monotony, boredom and boredom that may be caused by long-term consistent sex life; 3. Enhance the intimacy between lovers and reduce the occurrence of extramarital sex. There are many ways for you to choose. You can change the time, place and environment of making love 24 hours a day. Couples who always make love at night can occasionally make love in the morning, noon or even other unexpected times, which will make their dull sex life novel and interesting. Sexologists say that pre-planned sex often gives people expectations and can enhance sexual excitement, but in the long run it will make people feel monotonous and boring, while sudden and unexpected love can bring more passionate and novel feelings, so it is the smartest approach to combine these two situations. The place for having sex does not always have to be on the bed in the bedroom. For example, it can occasionally be on the carpet in the bedroom, or on the sofa in the living room, or even in the corridor, kitchen, hallway, and covered balcony. Of course, if conditions allow, having sex on the beach, in the forest, in a villa or even in your own car without violating moral standards, it will naturally make people more romantic and passionate. Of course, changes in the lighting, smell, sound and temperature of the lovemaking environment can also bring novelty to that warm and passionate moment. Changing sexual roles during sexual intimacy. Lovers always have to play different sexual roles in their sexual life, such as active, passive, aggressive and submissive sexual roles. Men may even play the father-type, who is kind and majestic, and the son-type, who is naughty and willful, while women may play the mother-type, who is like a mother who cares for and caresses her son in every possible way, and the daughter-type, who is weak and delicate. In long-term relationships between men and women, both men and women may tend to focus on one sexual role. If they deliberately change their sexual roles from time to time, and men who are often in the active type become passive or submissive, and women who are often passive become active or offensive, then they will definitely have more novel feelings and experiences. Changing contraceptive methods Using different contraceptive methods will bring different sexual feelings to your sex life, and changing these contraceptive methods can bring different new experiences. Couples who usually use condoms for contraception can try the feeling of topical contraceptive creams, while those who use contraceptive tools can switch to oral contraceptives for a period of time to see how it feels. Even if you have been using condoms for contraception, in addition to the usual domestic condoms, you might as well try imported condoms or those with raised dots, threads, scents, and different colors. In short, only change can bring novelty, and only novelty can avoid boredom. Couples Massage In recent years, couples massage has become popular all over the world, and many illustrated books on couples massage have been published in Europe, America, Russia and other countries. This kind of couples massage integrates fitness, enjoyment and sex, greatly enriching the content of the couple's sexual life. It is a sexual lifestyle worth promoting. As a foreign sexologist said: "There are actually many ways for couples to have sex. Don't reduce the sexual intercourse between couples to the only sexual intercourse mode. Many new sexual behaviors will make our sex life colorful and help us regain the freshness that has been lost in the long-lasting single mode. Couples massage is just like this." Adopt various methods of caressing: touching of hands, kissing of lips, embracing, rubbing of ears; all these intimate ways are called caressing, so caressing has a very wide range of activities. If lovers can adopt various methods of caressing with their hands, mouths and any parts of the body, including changing the intensity of the caress, it will naturally bring people different novel enjoyments and help to overcome sexual boredom. Of course, caress in a broad sense should also include verbal caress. During sexual intimacy, all words that express love, attachment and tenderness are extremely sentimental and play a role in adding icing on the cake in the diversification of sexual lifestyles. |