When it comes to foreplay, you two might be able to come up with these four secrets for getting each other hot and horny. But what about the aftermath? Don't tell me that you two cooled down quickly after the climax and wasted this best stage for enhancing intimacy with each other. "The sex between me and my boyfriend always makes me feel ecstatic. In addition to the wild orgasms he can bring, the main reason is that the lasting pleasure does not end with the orgasm... He likes to caress me gently after the orgasm, let me cool down slowly, and then hold me to sleep." said 23-year-old Yingru. Many couples know how to make their mattress rock and creak violently during lovemaking, but they may not understand how to keep the heat of lovemaking warm after climax. The sequels after sex - cuddling, chatting, playing, or having sex again - are all great ways to increase intimacy. There are various ways to play before the official battle, but at best, they can only help you to drift off in bed more easily. But what to do after sex? This is often overlooked by most people. Here are four great boudoir tips for you both to experience for yourself - what a difference an orgasm makes. Boudoir Tip 1: Feel each other's breath Let's face it! Although men won't whisper to each other about how intoxicating flirting and caressing are, it doesn't mean that he doesn't like to lie comfortably next to you and cuddle with you all night. So, even if your man always looks tingling and exhausted after having sex, maintaining some level of physical contact will actually help keep him feeling satisfied. When he comes back to his senses from the excitement of the ejaculation climax, you can start the plan of physical contact through flirting and caressing: press your front body against his back, so that every cell from his back to his toes can gently feel your exquisite curves; in addition, you can also use your nails to gently slide back and forth on the part from his wrist to his elbow; or stroke his hair with the palm of your hand; you can also lightly kiss his temple, palm of his hand and other easily overlooked places. As long as your movements are gentle and comfortable, rather than signaling to the other party that he must have any intense response, it will be fine. Tips for extra points: Even if he likes to cuddle with you after he's done, be careful to maintain a comfortable position and not cuddle to the point of numbness in both of your limbs. As you slowly cool down and fall asleep in each other's arms, gently ask him if this is comfortable. Boudoir secret trick 2: Please talk about love afterwards. After the climax, sometimes you don’t need any physical contact to keep your hearts closely connected, because there is no expectation at this time, so chatting in bed becomes the best way to enhance mutual understanding and intimacy without any pressure. However, this is not a good time to talk about serious issues or criticize your boyfriend's sex skills. There are other more appropriate times to discuss problems in the relationship. Use this moment to create intimacy, not oppression. If you want to make the conversation between you two more flirty, try this: describe to him in detail the tricks you have never tried on him but can't wait to try on him next time. Maybe that “next time” will become an unforgettable experience for both of you! Tips for extra points: Unable to express yourself? Don’t be shy! Tell him how high you were just now. Boudoir secret trick 3: Play some intimate games. Do you feel more energetic after sex? If you have excess energy but don't plan to play again, you might as well play a passionate little game, which can also take the intimacy between the two of you to a higher level. You can play a game of "bubble bath sex wars" with him so intense that it's enough to make up for the feeling of having sex a second time. If you, like most people, don't have soapy water readily available, there are plenty of other ways to get rid of your excess energy. For example, add some sandalwood oil to the bathtub, ask him to take a bath with you, or have a pillow fight, or put on some music and dance naked together. If that's not enough, go to the kitchen and do something more sensational: feed him a juicy strawberry while gazing lovingly into his eyes. Any man will feel excited. You can even do an impromptu "9 1/2 Weeks" routine: blindfold him, tease his taste buds, and ask him to guess what you're feeding him. Bonus tip: If your guy has to play games to feel aroused, try tickling. But if your man is afraid of tickling, you'd better give up. Boudoir Tip 4: Keep trying. Sometimes the end is just the beginning of another round. Even if the first round is exciting enough, the second round can be just as interesting. You might as well change things up by presenting a different visual style: do a striptease for him, let him watch you put on sexy lace bra and panties while twisting your body, and arouse his desire to take those things off you again. It doesn't matter if he doesn't have these props, just a button-down shirt is enough to make him itchy. If this doesn't work, show him your feminine skills by hitting his perineum (the perineum is located halfway between the scrotum and the anus). Gently massage and caress this approximately one-inch area to stimulate blood circulation, ensuring that he'll be a strong man again in no time. Tips to add points: Experts solemnly say that you should never pounce on him when he is not ready, otherwise you will start the second round right away out of impatience. A guy in his twenties usually needs to rest for five to fifteen minutes before he can get an erection again. Let him replenish his ammunition, take a deep breath and prepare for more moves that will fascinate you. |