In the past, I always gave my virginity to my husband after I got married. Now, a little girl who just entered the first grade of junior high school gave her virginity to her senior. Junior high school students are really strong now, especially boys who are only in junior high school. They have slept with many junior girls in the name of seniors and brag everywhere that they dumped the junior girls after breaking their virginity~ or played threesomes. Is it considered a failure of education? How many high school students are virgins? Sigh, I really want to go back to the old days. It is really hard to survive in this era. Moreover, the monster parents nowadays always complain about the bad education policy and fail to manage their daughters. It is really terrible to have sex with others when they are underage... Is your daughter or sister still a virgin? Are you worried about...? Although you may say that I am obsessed with virginity, but if your girlfriend tells you who the boy is who helped her lose her virginity, and that boy is your friend and you often meet, but he tells you how he helped your girlfriend lose her virginity from time to time, if you still don't care, I believe you are a holy man~~~~ Thank you all for your enthusiastic responses! This is a bit like the current bullying incidents. It has been happening frequently for n years, but only a few cases of bullying are reported in the news. Until now, no one takes it seriously. Even though sexual assault cases are often reported in the news, parents still only want their daughters to study hard and be better than other children. What's the point? I want to think about a few years ago when I was in junior high school, I met a girl who had sex with a senior in the school library. The point is that the girl’s family was very strict and her grades were good. Her family rarely let her go out to play. After school, she would be driven home. But there is always a loophole~ It is impossible to drive her every time!! It is impossible to be with her all the time. But how did it happen that time? The answer will surprise you. The reason is that the school held a tutoring class during the summer vacation of that year~ Students were allowed to attend the class but they had to pay for it themselves~ (But now summer tutoring in junior high schools seems to have become compulsory) At that time, her parents thought that if they let their daughter go to school, she would not fool around, so they paid for her to go to school, which cost about 1K. Unexpectedly, her senior boyfriend also went to tutoring classes (they were forced to go there by their parents). Then after the tutoring class, the school becomes a free hotel and they go to an empty classroom~~~~Well, you know, couples~~ They always kiss and hug each other, especially in the summer, it is easy to spark passion~~ They did something too much and that's what happened~ Look! How sorry this daughter is for her parents. Her parents took care of her so much, and were willing to spend money to send her to school. They used the salary earned through hard work and sweat to cultivate their daughter, but they let her have sex before she was 18. 16 is not right. The point is that she was 14 years old!! She was really young~ I believe that fathers who have read this article do not need to force their daughters to ask whether they are virgins, but they can strongly forbid their daughters from having boyfriends (do not think that they will not have sex because they are young and do not object). Or tell your daughter not to go to online chat rooms to avoid encountering sexual predators who may take away your daughter's virginity. If you have time, you can ask your daughter if she has a boyfriend or has been to a chat room. Show more concern and chat with your daughter. Don't always ask her to study but don't care about your daughter's situation. Don't be a stupid father who doesn't even know that his daughter has lost her virginity. Someone replied to me that it was just a broken membrane, so what? That was out of the love and concern of the parents. Caring for the child is definitely not just a membrane. If you think like this, there should be no love in your heart. |