The Art of Playing the Flute / Sex Secrets - The Jade Girl Playing the Flute (Urban Life Adult Fiction)

The Art of Playing the Flute / Sex Secrets - Fairy Playing the Flute

Spokesperson: 1999

I think oral sex is the highest form of expressing love between two people. There is no better way to express your love than to show infinite respect for a man's genitals.

Basic Actions

When you gaze upon his penis, I don't mean just a casual glance, but holding his penis in your hands to express reverence. As you start touching him, his penis will start to get hard and that's when you can start to really examine it. First, you will notice whether he has foreskin everted, and secondly, look carefully at the cylindrical part of his penis. There is a spherical object on the top of it, which is slightly larger in diameter than the cylinder. This is what people often call the glans.

There is a small opening at the top of the glans penis, which is where men ejaculate. The outermost part of the glans is called the glans ring, which connects the head and shaft of the penis. Please note that this is the most sensitive part. When you give your lover a blowjob, you should be more gentle here. I like to call this the soft groove. I personally love men's soft groove the most.

The middle of the junction between the glans and the shaft is one of the most tender parts of a man. If he has not had surgery yet, this is also where the foreskin is connected. Simply by gently touching this area with the tip of your tongue repeatedly, you may be able to bring your partner to orgasm. You may want to spend more time caressing the glans and its surrounding area.

Below the glans is the shaft of the male penis, where there are not many nerve endings, so if you just stroke this area with your hands or tongue, it will not give the man strong stimulation. I find it strange that many women believe that sucking the penis back and forth will cause a man to ejaculate. This is not true. It is actually because the woman's throat deep inside is playing a trick on the glans, which is the real reason why men ejaculate.

Below the penis are the testicles (balls, balls, call them what you want, just don't underestimate their importance). The testicles are particularly sensitive to pain and are generally believed to play only a supporting role in the process of sexual stimulation. Wrong! In fact, as long as you treat them correctly, they can also make your partner reach the peak of happiness. For example, put them in your mouth, one or even two at the same time.

So pay attention to his penis, study it carefully, fully understand the most sensitive areas of his body, and be ready to use your sexual knowledge on him. As you bend over his penis, use your tongue and your lips.

Pleasure areas

Technique is important when it comes to sucking your partner's penis so that he or she can fully experience the pleasure. With his hard cock pointing proudly toward the ceiling, cup his testicles with one hand while gently, softly, and carefully licking the underside of his erect penis with your tongue alone. When your tongue licks his soft groove, you will find that it can give him extreme pleasure. Unless your partner is made of stone, as your tongue moves along you will find the area that gives him the most pleasure. Once you find what excites him most, focus your energy there.

For most men, the most sensitive area is where the outer edge of the glans penis connects to the foreskin before circumcision. By repeatedly licking and tapping this area with your wet tongue, you can make him ejaculate. If you are not very experienced and want to make him feel comfortable in a short time, I suggest you use this method to make him ejaculate so that you can get first-hand information about the nature and pleasure of his orgasm.

climax

When a man reaches orgasm you must pay attention to some subtle changes in his penis. These changes are the same every time he reaches orgasm, allowing you to pay attention in advance and prepare for his ejaculation. At this time, the man's glans will appear slightly larger than during normal erection, and during ejaculation he will move his hips to extend the penis as far forward as possible. Generally, before ejaculation, one or two drops of transparent liquid will drip out from the fissure of his glans. When you see this and feel the fissure of the glans open, you should know that the truth is about to be revealed to the world. Let you step on the gas and fire away!

Skill

The best position is to kneel between your partner's legs and start at the base of his penis, rather than the side or top. Of course, I will mention various postures later, so you may want to try them with your partner to see which one is most suitable.

Circular Beatboxing

The point here is not to ask you to imitate various sounds, but to put his iron-hard penis into your mouth, be careful not to use force with your lips, and make your head make a circular motion. As you circle back and forth, his penis will flip from side to side in your mouth, touching different parts of the body, being careful not to touch it with your teeth. The positions mentioned in the previous paragraph are good, but there is another way, which is to have your partner lie down and you take his/her penis directly from above the vertical penis. Remember to turn gently and purposefully, rather than violently. If you do it right, doing this can mean hours of flawless enjoyment. If you still want to make some noises, I think a few wet slurps would be enough to drive him crazy.

Lollipop

Have your man sit up slightly higher, and you kneel down in front of him, lifting his cock to expose his balls. Use your tongue to lick from the base of his balls straight up to the top of his glans. You can use your hands to help here. Try licking it up and down a few times, just like you were licking a lollipop as a child.

Sucking (this is one of the basic blow job techniques)

Slowly take his penis into your mouth, not too deep, let your tongue just cover one side of his glans, wrap your lips around the shaft a little bit outside the glans, and hold the rest of his shaft with your hand. You have several options at this point. Try twisting your head left and right and keeping your tongue covering the bulging edge of the glans, while your hands rub the penis up and down.

When he orgasms, he may want your mouth to cover his penis as much as possible, but if you do that you will miss the wonderful moment. Instead, you can gently lick the very edge of his glans, which can stimulate his pleasure to a greater extent and enhance the energy of his orgasm. As you gain experience, you will know exactly when he ejaculates, and your actions will be more accurate.

To intensify his orgasm, you can press your thumb against the base of the penis to block the semen flow and prevent ejaculation. Even though your partner may twitch and have an ejaculation reflex, the semen will not slip out. Keep sucking on his glans hard to delay his ejaculation. When you finally allow it to come out, you'll notice how long and intense it is. Even though you only delayed for a short while, the intensity of his ejaculation was enough to surprise you.

Testicles

These are two things that can enhance your partner's feelings. Hold his penis with your head and lick his testicles with your tongue, gradually making the testicles completely wet with your saliva. Then take them all into your mouth and give them a good bath. Remember to smooth down his pubic hair to avoid accidentally hurting your partner. Try pressing his perineum, which is between the testicles and the anus. Some men enjoy a prostate massage while receiving a blowjob. This is when you need to use your fingers (see "Flowers Blooming in the Back Garden" below for details).

Simple blowjob

Hold his glans with your wet lips and slowly rotate it around the back of the glans (the soft groove mentioned above). This doesn't require much sexual skill, but it is effective because this is the most sensitive part of his genitals. You don't have to be a great blowjob master, but you have to find his most sensitive areas. Continuous sucking here will induce a quick but powerful ejaculation. Remember not to bob your head up and down to achieve this result.

69 No U-turn

The 69 position isn't always the best way to give your lover oral pleasure. If you're not careful, one of you may end up slowing down in order to enjoy the other's oral pleasure. But I believe 69 is the ultimate act of pleasure. As long as the two of you can devote yourself correctly, selflessly, and match the rhythm of each other's desire in time, 69 will be unbeatable.

Deepthroat

When you first start giving a man oral sex, your first reaction is probably to vomit. Many men always want to stuff their penis as far down our throats as possible, especially when they are about to ejaculate. The biggest obstacle to swallowing his penis whole at this time is that there is a nearly 90-degree bend deep in the human throat, so the first thing to do is to try to get his penis through this level smoothly.

To achieve this effect, first find a position where your mouth and throat are almost in a straight line. The best way to do this is to lie on your back with your arms and legs relaxed and your head close to the edge of the bed so that you are as far back as possible. This position puts your mouth and throat in a nearly straight line, allowing your partner to penetrate the deepest part of your throat while his pubic hair caress your lips.

When the penis reaches the deepest part of your throat, you will naturally have a gagging reaction. But you can overcome the habit over time by trying to relax your throat. You should always stay relaxed throughout the process. When he reaches your deepest part you should adjust slightly, finding the most comfortable position. Given your position at this moment, you can't make any head movements to stimulate him, you just need to hold his throbbing penis tightly in your mouth. Of course, if you can find a way to lick his soft part, then don't hesitate, act quickly.

If you completely trust your partner, then you don't need to do anything at this point, just try to relax. He is in complete control and manipulates the entire process. At this point he would move it in and out as if he were having sex. He should move slowly and gently, especially if this is your first time trying this method. The only thing he had to remember was that he could only move in one direction from beginning to end. Of course, he couldn't try any other angle.

Ejaculation

You better be careful! Don't let him get carried away when he wants to ejaculate. When he puts his entire penis into your mouth, you must be absolutely careful that he cannot ejaculate in your mouth!

Because of your position in bed, you don't even get a chance to "swallow" his cum. Not only is his condom at risk of ending up in your stomach, but don't forget that his penis is in a position that could cause you to gag. Even without a condom, his semen will be ejaculated directly into your abdominal cavity. If you and your partner understand this and take care, I believe it will not be dangerous or uncomfortable for either of you.

Not every woman will try the "deep throat" technique, but that doesn't mean you are not an excellent "flute player". Remember to relax when your partner inserts his penis deep into your mouth. Being able to last long until he ejaculates will not be achieved in a day or two. You may eventually be able to accept him inserting his penis completely into your mouth, but you may not be able to maintain this state until he ejaculates.

Hopefully your partner will understand that this isn't a rejection of him or his efforts, but I certainly hope you don't let this put you off thinking you'll never master this skill. With constant practice, you will be able to get him deeper and longer each time. ^_^

Butterfly Flutter

The best position for this sensual oral sex move is to lie prone on top of him, although you can also kneel in front of him if he's standing. Contract your mouth to create a vacuum, generating suction on his penis, enough suction to slowly draw his penis into your mouth. Wrap your lips tightly around his swollen glans and shaft, and gently tease the tip of his glans with the tip of your tongue. The lips begin to move up and down at the same time. After a few minutes, switch to vacuum suction and repeat the action.

Figure 8 Dance

Your lips tighten around his shaft, slowly moving towards the base, at least as far as you can go. Use your tongue to slowly write the number 8 on it. The number should be about three to four inches long. Keep your lips tight all the time. Repeat this action until you are tired, then change to vacuum sucking.

Take the penis deep inside and wrap your lips tightly around the shaft. Then open your mouth and inhale as much air as possible while slowly moving your mouth toward the glans. Your lungs should now be full of air. Keep your mouth open and exhale slowly while slowly lowering your mouth to the base of the penis. This action cools the penis when you inhale, and the heat flow excites the penis when you exhale. Repeat the action, and then return to the vacuum sucking action. If you think he's about to ejaculate, stop and let him be sober for a few minutes.

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