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Sexual fantasies exist in your subconscious, seep into every pore of your body, and can involuntarily stimulate your libido and physical organs.
Women, especially those who are considered to be erotic, often consciously or unconsciously brew the honey of "sexual fantasies" in their minds to prepare mentally for the next sexual intercourse with a man. Generally speaking, women with rich sexual fantasies are easily aroused. The so-called sexiness comes not only from the charm of appearance, but also from the ability to have sexual fantasies in the mind.
In fact, the definition of a sexy woman and a sexy man is the same. A truth is that people who lack sexual fantasies have boring lives and lack interest. Sexual fantasy and pornography are two different things, and it does not necessarily mean that all fantasies will become reality. This is precisely the advantage of fantasy. Sexologists point out that if there is no sexual fantasy during sexual enjoyment, it is difficult to reach a climax of pleasure.
Regarding sexual fantasies about real partners, women, like men, first take their real sexual partners as the objects of sexual fantasies, and fantasize about making love with their lovers in bed in the ways they can imagine.
The reason is simple. In addition to emotional factors, various sexual fantasies can only be realized if the body is within reach. It turns out that this kind of sexual fantasy is usually more likely to stimulate the pleasure of lovemaking between lovers and prevent them from getting bored with each other. For women, fantasizing about having sex with another man is usually about having sex with an old lover.
After having such thoughts, many women begin to suspect that they are sexually frigid or feel guilty about having feelings for the other person. Therefore, once they have this "insincere" thought, they will begin to blame themselves secretly and restrain themselves.
The results of the psychological questionnaire show that almost all women, even when having sex with the most enchanting men, have more or less had this experience of "fantasy" about their old lovers.
The type of fantasy about having sex with another man is: the object of the fantasy is usually a man who "could have been, but couldn't", a relationship that could not be realized for moral reasons or other regrettable reasons (such as disability, AIDS, or geographical distance).
Of course, women should give up the idea of "having sex with all men they like", but temporary "inappropriate thoughts" do not mean cheating on their partners or being sexually indifferent.
Another type of person fantasizes about having sex with an "out of reach" man, usually a public figure.
This is due to a "star worship" mentality and is common among young girls and young women.
Another type of fantasy object is "general objects", such as the opposite sex with strong muscles and large penis, criminals with barbaric temperament and rough behavior, or handsome young men with childish skin. These fantasy objects can arouse women's sexual desire more easily than ordinary people.
Fantasizing about having sex with another woman Compared with men, more girls fantasize about having sex with the same sex. The reason may be that it is more socially acceptable for women to have sex with each other than for men, and fewer people worry about becoming homosexuals. The object of their fantasy is usually a strange woman, but they can accurately imagine what will happen between the two of them.
This new way of imagining sex can also make many "good girls" feel "inappropriate" guilt, or they may be afraid that their male partners will find it strange or make them suspicious without reason.
But they all know that even if they only act it out in their minds, the pleasure they get will be similar to real lovemaking. For those women who are open-minded and free-spirited, they like to indulge in fantasy all the time, but after the fantasy, their expectations for real sexual experience are weakened.
This type of fantasy includes "sweet threesomes", group sex for the sole purpose of relieving sexual desire, and voyeurism.
The most common fantasy is to be wild in public. This is not only to stimulate your partner's sexual desire, but also to satisfy yourself.
The fantasy of a man giving you oral sex. For many women, oral sex is probably the most common and most exciting (even the only one for some people) way of indulging in sexual pleasure. So it is not difficult to understand why oral sex is a common fantasy for almost all women.
In a woman's fantasy, the man must be a strong, handsome, tall and sexy man. He not only satisfies her special desires through oral sex out of love, but also shows high passion, gives her oral sex for hours and becomes a slave to her desires... pounding heartbeat, rapid breathing, tense muscles... the man smears honey, ice cream, strawberries, cream on the woman's body or decorates it with flowers... Unfortunately, however, most women can only keep this desire in their sexual dreams.
Almost all women will admit this without hesitation, because it is the most acceptable and easiest to talk about among all kinds of "sexual fantasies".
If a woman says, "I dreamed that I was on a sunny tropical beach, having sex with a handsome guy," it would definitely be more feminine than saying, "I dreamed of giving a blowjob to a strong policeman."
Reserved women tend to dream of the seaside, mountains, castles, manors, under the shade of willows, on boats, in the sun or in the moonlight... The scenes are different and the language of expression is different, but in a large number of questionnaires, almost no woman denies that she has had romantic sexual fantasies of one kind or another.
The sexual fantasy of being "raped". Many women have fantasized about being "safely" raped. Perhaps some people will find this ridiculous, unbelievable, or too far from reality.
Women who imagine being "raped" in their minds only focus their fantasies on the form of sexual intercourse, forced, intense,
Swiftly...For "good girls", they rarely fantasize about the physical pain of being "raped".
In fact, this "fantasy of being raped" is far from the real criminal "rape".
In other words, fantasy sexual rape is nothing more than a woman's fantasy of herself being "playfully" ravaged by an imaginary man like a cute doll, and it does not contain any real violence.
At the other extreme, some women tend to fantasize about being raped by a "rough man," and the relationship between them and the imagined man is often imagined to be as cold as a court trial or a business negotiation. The reason why such fantasy is attractive is that it makes it easier for women to feel the "real existence" of the fantasy object.
The fantasy that makes men obsessed, almost all women will imagine that they are a beautiful, slender, sexy, cute and charming woman. They imagine that there are a large group of men surrounding them, flattering and courteous to them, while they "control themselves", "control the men", "control the situation", and always "bless" some outstanding man to get close to them... This fantasy is too common, because which woman doesn't want as many men as possible to fall at her feet?
The fantasy of being a prostitute is a very embarrassing "sexual fantasy" to talk about. Most women are shy during sex. The sexual fantasy of "having sex for money" can help them dispel this "social" shyness and inspire their true sexual desire in their subconscious through dreams.
What is the reason for this? Because "obligatory sex" involves more emotional and moral factors, which more or less conceal or suppress "libido". If men pay to have sex with women, then women can, to a certain extent, temporarily free themselves from this "spiritual bondage". Another reason is that men who pay will inevitably choose beautiful, sexy, and sexually capable women, which shows that their charm is so great that men are willing to pay to have sex with them; another reason is that women can, through this imagination, arouse their sense of guilt to a certain extent. This abnormal psychological state can excite their bodies, stimulate their sexual ability, and also satisfy their "sexual violence" psychology.
In real life, this kind of sex is rarely successful, however, this fantasy scene can arouse strong passion in women. Usually, for many women, realistic, repetitive, single-object sex is boring and lacks novelty, while the imagination of strange men adds a sense of "pure sexual desire". The objects of their imagination are "faceless men" who attack them from behind. They cannot see but can only feel the strange men. |
