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You are a beautiful and mature woman. You want to have a marriage that everyone envies. However, in bed, there is an unspeakable awkward cloud surrounding you and your husband. You love him deeply and try to do better every time, but it is always unsatisfactory. So how can you make yourself have unforgettable sex?
Generally speaking, a good feeling during sex is mostly due to the following factors:
1. You have a strong desire, want it very much, and are in a relaxed mood, which makes it easiest to get into the situation. For example, one interviewee had the experience of: "The best feeling was when I went home from a friend's house after a drink and a chat. It was already past five in the morning, and my brother was sleeping in the room. I asked him to wash his face and take a rest before going back, but he hugged me and said, 'I want it!' That time we didn't dare to be loud in the room, for fear of waking up my brother, but we reached the climax at the same time... It felt great!"
2. The two people are in love, have romantic foreplay, feel that they understand each other and are deeply cherished by each other. This usually happens between lovers who are deeply in love, but there are also special examples. For example, the experience of one interviewee: "So far, the best sex I have ever had was with a foreigner. At that time, I had been divorced for two years. He may have seen my needs. At 9 o'clock in the evening in the hotel where he was staying, he poured me a glass of beer. We chatted on the sofa first. We both had a good feeling. He kissed my ears and cheeks, and hugged me tightly. At that moment, I felt really beautiful. I have never had such a feeling of being bitten, because he understands your feelings and appreciates your reactions. After taking a shower, he carried me to bed. At that time, the only thing I thought of was that I had to let go, put aside all shame and burdens, and enjoy the moment wholeheartedly. He was tall and I was petite, but he was very compassionate. He taught me to play and caress slowly, and led me step by step into a good state and experience a soul-stirring state."
3. The other party behaves well, is considerate and has good skills. One interviewee said: "The best sex experience was with my fourth boyfriend. He is a photographer, very romantic, gentle and cool looking. Being with him often brings unexpected surprises. Having sex with him is a very beautiful thing. He always finds a comfortable place, plays music and drinks a little wine. Most importantly, he pays attention to my feelings. He is not the kind of person who falls asleep right after sex. He would fill a pool with warm water and bathe with me. I will never forget that feeling."
4. When faced with an exciting and adventurous atmosphere, such as having an affair, hiding from others, or being afraid of being discovered, they often feel a strong sense of pleasure: "The best time was in a field abroad, doing it while driving, and it was very liberating." "The best time happened at MTV, with an American. Halfway through the movie, he started to touch my body. I didn't refuse and I responded. We passionately demanded and responded to each other, and reached a climax together in the most wild and unrestrained process."
5. The mood of ceremony and celebration, reunion after a long separation, special days, etc. One interviewee said: "The best time was when I hadn't seen him for a long time. When we met in a restaurant, we were so passionate that I wanted him to eat my whole body. He was also so passionate. When he 'entered' me, my whole body could not help but feel joy, tremble, and embrace, hoping for closer contact and friction. This time was the best, and I could climax two or three times, especially when he guided me skillfully, the climax was so beautiful."
For women, sex without orgasm is boring. In order to get it, they have to have sex, which will definitely involve risks. Due to individual differences, everyone knows that no matter who you have sex with, it can never be 100% safe. Since 100% safety is impossible, try to reduce the risk to the minimum step by step.
5 steps to safe sex Step 1 - Ask the other party to use condoms correctly. Although 70% of Chinese people say they can accept not using condoms during sex, the dual functions of condoms in preventing disease and preventing pregnancy undoubtedly make it the most recommended contraceptive device by professionals. In addition, about 8% of the population are allergic to latex. If you happen to belong to this category, it would be best to choose polyurethane condoms that can be purchased at ordinary pharmacies. As for the correct use of condoms, that goes without saying.
Step 2 - Are you a person who has many sexual demands? Don't worry. Understanding your true sexual needs is the second step to having safe sex.
Step 3 - Choose a sexual partner who can accept your views: Let me remind you that people's sexual concepts are formed over a long period of time under the influence of factors such as living environment and educational background. Do not try to change the other person's sexual concepts, and do not impose your own sexual concepts on the other person.
Step 4 - Find out if your sexual partner has a tendency to violence, unless you like SM: The following simple test recommended by psychologists will help you understand whether your sexual partner has a tendency to violence.
Step 5 - Protecting your sexual privacy is a virtue. If you are not so desperate that you have to exchange your sexual experience for money, or if you really have no choice, protect and cherish your sexual privacy. Of course, if you and your sexual partner are both top-notch and don't care about worldly opinions, that's a different story.
Only by following the 5 safety steps and minimizing the risk can you have an orgasm without any burden! |
