Long-lasting sex is the desire of most men. However, some men are always unable to do so, and they "surrender" not long after the "battle" begins, causing their wives to end the "battle" before they reach orgasm. Someone once summarized the ancient art of sex in one sentence: the man delays the onset of orgasm and reaches a new climax together with the woman. Therefore, a man's insistence on not "ejaculating" during sex is a problem that concerns both men and women. There are several ways to help men fight the "long battle" and promote harmony in the sexual life of couples. 1. Use energy-saving sexual positions. Try to choose positions that allow the man to use less energy and relax his muscles, such as side-lying, woman-on-top, sitting, etc., to prolong the duration of sexual intercourse. When the man is on top and the woman is on the bottom, the man is more active, his movements are larger, he is easily excited, and he ejaculates faster. However, if the woman is on top, or in a side position, the woman takes the initiative, the man uses less force, and his muscles are relaxed, which is more conducive to a "protracted war." 2. Use condoms. Wearing condoms can reduce the stimulation to the glans penis and thus delay ejaculation. If one condom doesn't work, try wearing two. 3. Travel light and don’t blindly pursue “bravery” in the “battle” If you are too brave, the tension and anxiety will lead to a decrease in the control ability of the ejaculation center. When you feel the urge to ejaculate, adjust the speed of thrusting. The man can reduce sexual tension by pulling out his penis or stopping thrusting, and then resume thrusting according to the situation. Repeating this action repeatedly can significantly prolong the duration of sexual intercourse. 4. Pulling the scrotum and testicles: Since the scrotum and testicles contract and rise during sexual excitement, pulling the scrotum and testicles downward by the woman during sexual intercourse can reduce sexual tension and delay the onset of orgasm. 5. Pinch the penis and when you feel the urge to ejaculate, pull out the penis immediately. The woman should place her index and middle fingers above and below the coronal sulcus of the penis and her thumb on the corresponding parts and pinch them relatively. This can reduce sexual excitement. Relax every three to four seconds and repeat this process. |