Women’s lie: It’s okay to not have sex. Generally speaking, women prefer to talk about feelings. But in fact, those statements like “it’s okay without sex” and “sex is not the most important thing, feelings are the most important thing” are all lies. Just as some women, before falling in love, boast about how detached they are and ridicule how irrational those of the same sex who are trapped in love are, only when they fall in love do they realize the power of emotion. Once you get emotional, you lose your composure and the detachment you had at the beginning is long gone. So what do women really think about sex? Before, I said that "the new tough guy must be tough on both ends", and I was quickly criticized by an old man. He said that modern people are confused on the top and weak on the bottom, so how can they be strong on both ends? Generally, after several years, the relationship between couples fades and they experience the so-called "seven-year itch". The penis becomes uncontrollable and some people's minds wander and they start to think about the goodness of sex. In this sense, it simply means that women pay more attention to foreplay, and when the foreplay is sufficient, her true nature will be exposed: she actually likes sex very much. However, one has to go through a lot of trouble to admit this fact. It takes a woman a lot of time to develop a liking for sex. There is a very funny joke about men: When you are 20 years old, you have neither the intention nor the courage to steal; when you are 30 years old, you have the intention but not the courage to steal; when you are 40 years old, you have both the intention and the courage to steal, but when you look back, the thief is gone. The same is true for women. In other words, thirty is like a wolf, forty is like a tiger. This is a process of gradually restoring sex to its original state. Gradually strip off the utilitarian color and emotional pretense and return to the original nature of sex. But in the display, it takes a lot of time to recognize and acknowledge the truth, and many good times and beautiful scenes are wasted. This kind of waste of life is because the psychological backbone cannot be straightened all at once. Especially for Chinese women, who have always been oppressed by feudal ethics, it is indeed difficult to revive their self-confidence, develop an independent personality, and establish their self-assertion without time, experience, and "thickening" their skin. Why do women like hard kung fu? From a biological point of view, each organ of the body has its own appropriate stimulation. For example, the eyes mainly respond to light; the bones respond to pressure; and the female sexual organs respond to pressure. Playing music and saying a few sweet words may make her feel relaxed and happy, but it will never make her reach orgasm. Because, women's bodies only respond to stress. The harder you are and the more pressure you put on her, the more positively she will respond. Schrödinger said that humans are machines. A woman's mind and body are separate. The mind is emotion, the body is machine. The body has its own rules. Her heart will still be in harmony with her body's feelings - but the premise is that the man must have "hard skills" |