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Men and women in love are so eager to share everything, imagining that they feel the same way about everything. In fact, although men and women have the same sensory system, their sensory functions such as touch, sight, smell, taste, and hearing are quite different.
In the sexual life of couples, the difference in feelings is particularly obvious, and the experience of sexiness varies from person to person. It takes quite some time to figure out how to arouse your spouse's sexual excitement. Because in sex, you have to find a routine that excites your partner. Reading the following sexy guide will help you understand the physical characteristics of you and your spouse, your sources of sensory excitement, and make your sex life more fulfilling and satisfying.
1. The power of touch.
The more nerve endings and blood vessels there are, the stronger the sexual stimulation. The outermost layer of skin on the human body has no sensation; sensation is produced in the second layer of skin. For most people, the genitals, earlobes, lips, breasts, buttocks, and thighs are the most obvious erogenous zones. But many people's erogenous zones include the neck, palms, soles of feet and abdomen, etc.
During sex, the order of touches plays an important role. Generally speaking, you should start with the least sensitive area and gradually move to the most sensitive area. Touching the most sensitive parts at the beginning will only backfire.
Men and women like different types of touch. Women seem to be more sensitive to the strength of the touch. Usually they like to start with gentle caressing and then gradually increase the strength. Many people touch their spouse in a way that they like, but this may not be what their spouse likes. You should first find out the other person's real needs (such as the area and strength of touch) before you can achieve good results.
2. The vision of love.
Husbands require more visual stimulation for sexual arousal than do wives. This explains why men like to turn on the lights when making love, while women prefer dim lighting or no light at all.
But women can also become sexually aroused by visual stimulation. Moreover, handsome men can arouse the same visual pleasure for them as beautiful women do for men. But they usually avoid talking about it.
Despite the importance of visual stimulation in sex, many people make the mistake of avoiding using their eyes. They worry about their appearance not being what others think it is. Women may worry that their breasts are too small or their thighs are too thick; men may worry that their penis is too small or their body hair is too thick. Our sense of self-inadequacy is so strong that we often find it difficult to believe that others can be sexually aroused by us.
3. Sexy smell.
Everyone has a body odor, which is formed by bacteria on the surface of the skin and is as different from person to person as fingerprints. The reason we feel someone is attractive to us is largely related to their body odor. According to a survey, 71% of men and women believe that body odor is an important "stimulant". About one-third of women think that men with strong body odor are sexier than men with light body odor. More than half of the people think that musky body odor is the sexiest. About a quarter of people prefer spicy body odor.
Women seem to have a more sensitive sense of smell than men. They can smell the slightest odor of sweat from three feet away. During ovulation, their sense of smell is particularly sensitive.
The body's musk-like odor is produced by glands around the pubic area and under the vaginal fossa. In the animal kingdom, scent-emitting compounds called pheromones play a key role in courtship, attracting males to fertile females. But the situation with humans is different. Smelling a little bit of your spouse's body odor is usually not enough to arouse you. But the body odor of your spouse does play an important role in sex that cannot be underestimated. Modern people love cleanliness very much. They always wash their whole body clean and remove all odor, which makes it difficult to make full use of people's natural body fragrance. Of course, bad odor is naturally disgusting. Therefore, the best way is to stay clean and retain body odor.
4. Taste and sex.
We have about 10,000 taste buds, which are distributed in different parts of the tongue according to different sensory functions: the taste buds at the tip of the tongue sense sweetness, the taste buds on the sides of the tongue sense sourness, and the taste buds at the back of the tongue sense bitterness. Only salty taste can be felt in all parts of the tongue. This is a good thing, because the human body, when completely clean, tastes slightly salty. |
