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When it comes to making love, most people dare not say it. After eating three and a half bowls of soup, I felt like something was missing. For example, sometimes... you may not like what your boyfriend does to you, but you can only say "it's uncomfortable" or "it hurts", but you often don't know why it hurts? How to start…? How to explain…? How can I let him know where the pain is? What method should I use to avoid pain? For girls, it is very difficult to say bluntly: "I like being touched here~ Oh~ Right here~ It feels good here~" or directly mention the posture they like, like: "I like you to come from behind~" Such straightforward words are very difficult! After all, we have our own modesty, and we may even endure it silently in order not to ruin the atmosphere, thinking: "I'll just have to grit my teeth and bear it..." until we can no longer bear it...
However, even if we talk about it, we still have only a vague understanding of our own physiological structure. We cannot know where that "spot" is just by judging with the naked eye. Many unknown reasons, accompanied by unknown methods and fallacies... ferment on the Internet. People believe in Internet rumors, listen to the advice of netizens, and believe in the "pertinent" (that is, standard~) suggestions of obstetricians and gynecologists on the website. These are only temporary solutions and not a cure for the disease. They are just attempts to show their appreciation and stop there.
Until recently, I read a book called "A Sex Expert Comes to My House". As the name suggests, a sex expert completely debunks the general public's stereotypes and rumors about sex and gives a complete explanation. He also adds methods that will prevent people from falling asleep or getting "angry" while reading. The explanations are illustrated with pictures, and the content includes an explanation of the structure of the sexual organs of boys and girls (although it is taught in elementary school health education textbooks, the process of sexual organ reaction is not included! Including how the internal structures of boys work when they ejaculate? The teacher will not teach you that there are three stages of orgasm response, each with special body changes, corresponding patterns that make each other more sexually happy, etc.), and there are also illustrations of postures, which are cute but not provocative. Otherwise, you will not be able to bear it halfway through, and you will never be able to finish the book... Let me introduce it further below!
This book has five themes: preparation, practice, advancement, health, and concept.
The "preparation" at the beginning is for those who are very curious about sex but have not yet entered this field; for those of us who have had experience in a vague way until now, it is also a way to understand the generation principles of sex from an objective perspective, and how to use situations or imagination to create physical pleasure before starting. After all, a good start is half the success. All I can say is oh my god! Why didn’t I read this book before my first time, which made my first time turn out like that? Although it’s been a long time since I’ve known it, and I can still laugh it off as a joke, but as a mature woman, I still occasionally fantasize about having a beautiful first time that makes people blush and feel shy… “Refuse to be forced or half-hearted!” Because it is always particularly unforgettable for girls, and men who can be a woman’s first should cherish and treat it well~
Practical and advanced skills teaching, from teasing, postures, climax introduction, to communication when encountering bottlenecks... First of all, I want to say to boys: "Flirting is really important!" Don't get angry and rush to "fuck" in. The flirting methods described in it are really what I want to tell my boyfriend, but I always say as before: "Just bear with it!", or I don't know how to start... After all, men and women have different physical reactions. Women are very sensitive to touch, but men are very nervous! Through this book-like, encyclopedic, credible insight, you can have fun while you are at leisure (of course, please go away!) Don’t let your parents find out…) It’s a good idea to take it out and look through it when you encounter a problem.
As for the postures, there are illustrations, from the simplest to the most complex, telling you the advantages and disadvantages of each posture. More importantly, how to touch and make eye contact during the process, etc., are all ways to make your partner love you even more. This is also lacking in the various strange posture teachings on the Internet! Also, don't try the difficult poses in porn movies easily. It depends on each person's body flexibility. Don't force yourself to bend your waist and hurt your body!
In addition, each chapter is interspersed with useful "tips", "warnings", "hot and passionate games", "note for men", "note for women", "sex myths", etc. ... For example: How to keep fresh breath before kissing! This is really important, but it is also a small action that every boy tends to overlook! If you want to be a considerate boyfriend who makes your girlfriend crazy about you, please follow the small details! man! Please study it carefully!
In short, many parts hit the nail on the head, including the feelings during lovemaking, the taboos in each stage... While reading the book, I nodded many times in my mind, because some parts are really like that, it really feels like that, why haven't I analyzed it properly before! So this time I did my homework and marked a lot of key points… I studied harder than before… Because this kind of thing is really something that I will not think about again after I feel it has passed; and when it happens again, I will just “let it go” and forget about it. It seems a bit unsatisfactory to investigate the cause, but it’s good enough if there is any; or I will just talk to my friends, vent my grievances, and just laugh it off… Little do I know: the laughter is on the lips, but the pain is in the heart! This is probably also the way many modern people deal with sexual issues. If you really hadn’t read the book, you wouldn’t have known it was like this. It is normal to have these reactions, including the feeling of being relieved of stress and wanting to cry after making love! There are many places that do this.
The conclusion is that I have finally found a way that won't make you embarrassed, that allows you to understand yourself and your partner, and that allows the two of you to communicate in a coordinated manner physically and mentally. For this, I can almost cheer for Yahoo! If you have the same question and want to talk to your significant other, just give him a book to read. Instead of ruining the atmosphere during love, calling a stop in the middle, and making people lose their desire and desire to listen carefully halfway through, it is better to do the preparation work in advance and be a lover who is willing to learn and understand. Why not do it?! |
