1. Make good use of your tongue for more than just oral sex. But it has a deeper meaning: conversation. Oral sex is certainly a "gift" to women, but being willing to talk about your sex life is more important than that. You will benefit a lot from breaking down the barriers from time to time, asking her how she really feels, and understanding her perspective on what makes her feel happy. Also, don't forget to make sounds of pleasure during sex. Don't be shy. She needs to know and feel that you are truly happy. 2. Give her a kiss. A wonderful kiss is the highest level of communication. Forget the mechanical prescribed movements - pressing her lips, sliding the tip of your tongue in, then joining your tongues and taking a deep sip - a kiss that is truly unforgettable for her requires "feeling". Pay attention to her gentle breathing; when she takes a breath, capture her watery eyes with your affectionate eyes and let her know how much you cherish her. 3. Find new areas to let her know that you are a big adventurer! Don't let tradition limit your fun - many people prohibit new attempts and new searches, not because it will cause physical pain, but because of psychological barriers. One of the most arousing things for both parties is to watch each other masturbate; not only is this not insulting at all, but it can also help both parties better understand their partner's most sensitive areas and improve their sex life. 4. Take Your Time Generally, third- or fourth-level movies give people the illusion that sexual intercourse always comes quickly and intensely. But when facing your lover, the more important trick is to slowly feel the other person's rhythm and see clearly before taking the next step. If the other person is still enjoying the tactile pleasure brought by foreplay, why should you be so hasty? Occasionally adding some steps to the daily routine and extending the exploration time can make the pleasure of both parties last longer. 5. Concentrate Some people will keep thinking about other irrelevant things in their minds during sexual intercourse; remember, your partner is a very sensitive animal, and she will definitely be able to detect your distraction. If you are not careful, she may think you are thinking about another woman! However, some deviant sexual fantasies are exceptions. This can increase the endurance of your passion, so you might as well give it a try; but remember that the target is still the woman in front of you, so as not to call the wrong name in a hurry. 6. The revelation of wetness A sexologist once gave countless lovers a revelation: just try to close your mouth and use a tissue to wipe off all the moisture, then lightly swipe your fingers across your lips and pay attention to the feeling. Now wet your lips with your tongue again and then lightly sweep your fingers across them. What? Of course wet lips make you more "comfortable", right? Although men and women have many organs that can secrete natural lubricants, their secretions have a common drawback: they dry up quickly. You may want to try using a water-soluble lubricant (such as K-Yjelly or Orthojelly). This will not only make her feel that you are very considerate, but also help to increase the sexual interest of both parties. 7. Protection is important, so remember to choose a reliable condom. While unobstructed sex is always ideal, the consequences can often be serious. Women may feel disrespected and hurt if their husbands refuse to wear condoms. After all, taking birth control pills always comes with some side effects. Unless you have plans to have a baby, that's a different matter. |