〔male〕: Masturbating with hands is a difficult way for junior high school students to overcome difficulties. In order to improve my skills, I use sex toys. 1. The inflatable doll is not easy to use: *The seams of inflatable dolls (about 2,000 yuan or less) are prone to cracking, and once cracked, they leak air and are difficult to repair. No matter how hard you blow, she will never be satisfied. If you press her, she will be flattened, which will ruin her fun and cause premature ejaculation. *The doll's vagina is made very roughly. When the penis goes in, it easily breaks the skin. When it is pulled out, there is blood everywhere (so scary!). The next day, walking feels like riding a horse (it is very painful when the penis skin is broken! But it also heals very quickly). *It is inconvenient to clean after use. 2. Experience with silicone waistband (2500 to 4500 yuan): *Soft and lifelike, very much like real female organs; the size is about the size of 2 to 3 plastic bottles, easy to carry. *Suggestion: Do not remove the back cover. There is no mechanism in the lid, it is just a lid, but it is not easy to put back after taking it apart. * Wear a condom when using, apply Vaseline for lubrication and throw away the condom after use. There is no need to clean the condom, which is very convenient. * If you have a single male partner like Yao Niang, it is recommended that you live alone so that you can use it to simulate sex positions and experience various angles and strengths. * If the condom is used for a long time, the silicone will harden and the condom will be worn out and need to be cut off. 3. I heard that there are large silicone dolls on the market that are 120, 145 or 165 cm tall. It costs about 1,000 yuan and can be used for both sexual intercourse and oral sex. When folded up, it is about 40 x 25 cm. It seems to be very useful, but if you want to inflate it, it may break as easily as an inflatable doll. I have never used it. 4. In addition to venting, masturbation is more important for men to practice endurance. My experience is that if you can ejaculate within an hour, you will have a good sleep and feel refreshed the next day; if you ejaculate within half an hour, you will feel a little less energetic the next day; if you ejaculate within 10 minutes, If you want to practice lasting longer, you will feel impotent the next day. My method is to rent porn movies and watch them whenever you are free, and do them when you are excited. Watch more than 100 movies in a row, and you will become numb, tired, and lose interest. In the end, you can hardly get an erection, and even ejaculation is too troublesome. At this time, you can go an hour without ejaculating. 5. In principle, I do not approve of using "lasting liquid". Applying this thing on the turtle's head can reduce sensitivity. There is absolutely no problem in maintaining non-ejaculation for an hour. The problem is that if you do not ejaculate after an hour, you will start to feel bored, and you may not be physically able to sustain it. In the future, your wife may not like to play for so long. She may fall asleep halfway through, or the lubricant in her vagina may run out and cannot be secreted. She will start to scream in pain and kick you off the bed. If you notice your wife's impatience and ejaculate prematurely, you will find that your urethra seems to be tightened, and it will be a bit painful when you ejaculate! Although the urethra was not actually injured, I couldn't help feeling nervous. I think one should not force oneself during sex. If it doesn't work, just ejaculate. Don't drag it out and waste your energy. 6. Let me be frank: Watching too many porn movies has a side effect, which is that when you know a woman's body and sexual response very well, so that a woman's sexual organs are no longer mysterious and new to you, you may find that many women are no longer attractive to you, and you are no longer interested in them. Don't blame me at this time, love should not be based only on the impulse of sexual organs. If your love rises and falls with your sexual desire, then your mentality is not right. Need to adjust. 〔female〕: From a man's perspective, I suggest that you have some experience in masturbation. You know your own erogenous zones best. Don't expect your husband to have superb skills and be able to develop your sexual potential. Often, the orgasm you get from masturbation and the orgasm you get from sex are two different experiences. 1. If you are not married yet, have no chance to watch porn, and don't know how to masturbate (is it possible? I don't know much about girls' life situations), then according to the methods in porn, you should relax your whole body, imagine the eyes, smile, muscles, sweat, warm hug of your prince charming, and gentle caress of your breasts and lower body (feminists will also suggest that you look carefully at the appearance of your own sexual organs in the mirror, and be proud of it). 2. Vibrators are very good tools. They can perform subtle movements that the male reproductive organ cannot. Every woman should have one (of course, you have to keep it well hidden after purchase). Don’t mistreat yourself. In the north, you can easily find them by looking for classified ads in newspapers. I’m not sure about central and southern parts of the country. Generally, delivery is done in person and payment is collected. A few companies use express delivery. I don’t know if you dare to buy from people in person like this? 3. I know four types of massage sticks: cylindrical (like a very thick ballpoint pen), egg-shaped (can be placed in the vagina to make you numb), penis-shaped, and cylindrical pineapple-shaped (the penis is covered with small beads or other protrusions, and the beads can rotate). You can buy the first two types, but the third and fourth types (about 3,000 yuan) are a bit too exaggerated (when the drawer is opened, a thick flesh-colored male penis, or a colorful, huge rotating bead stick full of sexual fantasies appears, which is a quite scary spectacle). They are not suitable for unmarried ladies, but they are basic toys in adult films. Thoughtful new good men should take the initiative to prepare all three types to make their sex life perfect. 4. If the hymen has not been broken, you should avoid using a massage stick to avoid being too excited and accidentally piercing the hymen. Then I will have to undergo surgery to restore it, which is troublesome. 5. Orgasm is a great experience, but women's bodies are delicate and their erogenous zones are different and distributed all over the body. It is not something men can understand naturally, so you must masturbate and understand your own excitement points, so that you can guide a man to easily make you reach a sublime state, allowing a man to make you reach orgasm with the least effort. Don't make him too tired or have no energy to go to work the next day. This is a kind of consideration. The above is only a rough report on the technical aspects of sex, and is applicable to those who are already in society but unmarried. If students masturbate in this way, they will definitely become restless and mentally distressed, and will not be able to study well and will not have a good financial life. In principle, sex is a very monotonous activity, which needs to be seasoned with warm emotions so as not to become boring. |