Learn about the seven misconceptions about sex life (sex knowledge adult novel)

When it comes to sex, we have many seemingly correct and reasonable views, but in fact, they are far from the laws of sex...
Misconception 1: You are solely responsible for whether the other person is satisfied during caressing.
Caressing is a matter between two people, and it is not entirely your responsibility to satisfy the other person. But if you can take the other person's needs into consideration, it can really increase their pleasure.
Myth #2: The more you pay attention to your sexual performance during intimacy, the better it will be.
This is a big mistake. If you only think about what to do, you won't feel anything. Let everything take its course and don’t analyze specific performances, and you will get the best feeling.
Misconception 3: Having only one sexual partner will make people bored over time.
Lifelong partners can have a long-lasting sexual relationship, but boredom often comes from not understanding the other person well or not being deeply in love. To keep things fresh, both parties can be bolder, more lively, and more creative when being intimate.
Misconception 4: Men’s sexual ability reaches its peak when they are young and then goes downhill.
The hormone that affects male sexual excitement is usually secreted the most and reaches its peak when men are young. However, men's sexual ability does not rely solely on physiological factors. How he feels about himself, his partner, and sex will affect his body's reactions. Therefore, older men who are in good health, have an understanding of their sexual abilities, and have a partner they like may be better able to express their love than younger men.
Misconception 5: Sex should always be a passionate spiritual exchange between men and women.
Sex isn't always like this, that's the only way it happens. In real life, it may be passionate, mild, or dull, it may have multiple climaxes, or it may be peaceful and dependent on each other, and there are many situations. If one takes complete spiritual and sexual communication as the goal of sex, the goal itself will become distracting, and forcing spiritual and sexual unity will make it difficult to achieve.
Misconception 6: Independent and aggressive women will make men impotent.
Generally speaking, women will not cause men's impotence. Men's impotence is mainly caused by their own lack of security. However, in the eyes of many men, the best sexual partner is an active woman. If women may cause men to be impotent, women who are completely passive during intimacy are more likely to do so. Of course there are exceptions.
Myth #7: Sex should always be spontaneous.
Many couples feel that modern life is too busy and they don't have time to have sex, so they think sex should be spontaneous. In fact, this is not a good thing. Although you shouldn't set a time for going to the bedroom because that would be too unnatural, you should arrange time for the two of you to be together, which will make you happier.