Sex can also be comfortable (adult novels about sex)

【Dr. Cheng Cheng-jie】
A gynecologist observed that insufficient sex education and excessive suppression of body exploration and sexual cognition can lead to sexual discomfort, which occurs in both men and women.
What is freedom of nature? Simply put, it means feeling comfortable with sex, rather than being coy when it comes to it, avoiding the topic, or simply rejecting, despising, or ignoring it.
Dr. Cheng Cheng-jie pointed out that since women's reproductive organs are more introverted, they are not like men who naturally touch and explore their sexual organs every day since childhood. In addition, mothers always teach their daughters, so not to mention that most women have never properly faced their external genitalia until adulthood, some people are even afraid to clean there properly when taking a bath.
Excessive restrictions on women's exploration of their own bodies and their understanding of sexuality will certainly make women uncomfortable with sex. In fact, we all have to admit that most women feel more comfortable with sex after getting married, especially after giving birth. Some female friends say that after lying on the delivery table with their legs open for several hours, it is hard not to feel uncomfortable!
Fear of sexual intercourse and aversion to sex, as well as vaginismus, are two types of female sexual dysfunction caused by sexual discomfort. Often, these women have been married for many years and are still virgins because their husbands simply cannot have sex with them. These women who are seriously sexually uncomfortable may have a wrong understanding of sex or a timid personality. A few of them have an unfortunate history of sexual assault. Therefore, unless they receive psychological treatment, their discomfort often leads to divorce.
Milder discomfort is actually quite common, among both men and women. As soon as they hear about sex-related issues, they avoid the issue as much as possible. What most people find interesting, they think is corny. Some even think, “Why do we need sex education? We will learn it naturally when we grow up!” They think sex education is only about sexual intercourse! What's more, in clinical practice I often see couples who don't know how to live their married life! Who says it will happen naturally?