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Many people accuse men of being feudal and possessive, which is why they focus on chastity. The fact is: precisely because women, unlike men, usually cherish their first time and regard it as sacred, men value chastity. Imagine a society where everyone is casual and doesn’t care, then it doesn’t matter whether there is a first time or not, and the feelings are the most important. However, in a conservative society, the first sexual relationship often represents an unforgettable relationship, and the first man is indeed irreplaceable by subsequent men. At this time, chastity becomes important.
Does chastity really not matter? After having had relationships with two or three or more men, after the fourth or fifth one, she completely "let go". Not only will sex become more casual, but tolerance towards partners and dedication to love will also be compromised. As for love, mutual tolerance, acceptance and dedication to love are the foundation of maintaining love. Without these, both of you will feel uneasy with each other. If you blame the man for not having chastity, you are really wronging him. You said that a man's desire to completely possess you is feudal and selfish, so can you tolerate your husband having other women? Most women can't. So can you promise to be loyal only to your husband after marriage? Of course you will try your best to ensure it. But the possibility of a woman keeping this promise is very different for a woman with or without chastity.
The hymen method can no longer be used to identify virginity. Because many women (including prostitutes) will undergo hymen reconstruction when they want to get married. I have two methods for you to identify virgins, one physiological and one psychological. Anyone can do the first method, but it has limitations; the second method can only be used with ease by mature men who have experience in the world.
Physiological method:
1. For quite a number of women, their vagina will become loose after a certain period of sexual activity (one or two years). Having sex with her lacks pleasure and feels very loose. You have to know that a virgin who has never had sex has a closed vulva, and it has never opened even a little bit, so when you insert it, it will be very tightly clamped and very comfortable.
It is important to note here that not all women will relax within one or two years. So: the one who is loose is definitely not a virgin; the one who is not loose is not necessarily a virgin.
2. Virgins usually do not experience physical pleasure during their first sexual intercourse due to fear, tension, pain, etc. They also do not know how to experience and enjoy physical pleasure. So when you want to have sex with a woman you suspect is a virgin, you should choose a time when she is in a good mood and is being very sweet with you. The weather should also be good. In short, the environment should be good and all conditions should be in place. At the same time, you should be careful not to ejaculate prematurely this time. You can masturbate once beforehand, or drink alcohol in moderation. For example, after celebrating her birthday. Caress her with all your strength and make her excited. It is difficult for a woman with sexual experience to control herself in this situation. If you find that her body cooperates well with you, she will actively and tightly lead you to penetrate her, and the movements are so natural and just right, and she reaches orgasm after your long-term thrusting, then she must have a problem.
3. The face-to-face sex position for humans is the best sex position to express love. This position is a must for a virgin’s first time. She wants to hold you, let you press her down, conquer her, and thus devote her whole life (she hopes so). In this situation, if you want to deflower her from behind, it will be difficult. Generally she won't let you do this, and may even be angry with you.
4. If the first time goes smoothly, try different sex positions next time. You should know that fake virgins are very cautious and attentive at the beginning, making it difficult for you to detect them. After a long time, if you become lax and think you have a good plan, it will be easy to be exposed. Because every time a woman tries a new sex position, she needs to adjust and adapt. For some women, some positions require multiple attempts before they can feel pleasure. For example, a woman will feel embarrassed when she is on top for the first time. She will not know how to move and will appear clumsy. The same is true for the doggy style position. She will feel embarrassed and will not know how to coordinate with your movements. If a woman changes to a new posture and appears to be very familiar with it, there must be something wrong with her. Of course, in this regard, whether one has received education, is good at sports, or has watched pornographic films will all have an impact, but basically there will not be much difference.
5. A woman’s first time is unforgettable and worth savoring. If she is really a virgin, she will recall your first time again and again in bed while you are whispering under the moonlight. If she rarely mentions it, you should be careful. You can take the initiative to recall the "first time". If she responds coldly and changes the subject, it means she has something to hide.
Psychological method:
The psychological method can only be done by men who are a little older (twenty-seven or twenty-eight), have experienced society, and have seen a lot of people. You must be able to recognize and judge people.
The natural shyness of a real virgin cannot be imitated even by the most skilled fake virgin actress. Once you have experienced society and met many people, you will be able to distinguish between real shyness and feigned shyness. The biggest problem for actors is that they overact because they don't understand the role and lose their authenticity. Liu Xiaoqing's plays have always been like this, because she is actually very empty inside, has not received any formal education, and cannot fully understand and integrate into the role; Dustin Hoffman plays the Rain Man very similarly, not through exaggerated expressions and movements, but through the understanding of the spiritual world of mental patients gained by living with them. When getting along with a fake virgin, you can pretend to be stupid and let her perform, and she will eventually reveal herself!
A woman who has never slept with a man will keep a distance from men. This is not the case for those who have had men. Only a mature man can distinguish the subtle differences. This distance includes physical ones, such as: the body distance when talking to a man, the length of time she looks directly at him, whether she would do some unsightly actions (for example, if her things fall under the desk, would she stick her butt up in front of the man to pick them up, etc.), and psychological ones, such as: whether she speaks to a man without any regard, whether she makes some marginal jokes, and also social ones, such as: whether she often goes out alone with different men (to watch movies, drink coffee, play ball, etc.) (Note that traveling alone is not a problem in itself, as she can always try to date others before you. The problem is whether she can easily go out alone with different men frequently. Traveling does not refer to sexual intercourse, but is a measure of the degree of interaction between men and women. Virgos are generally wary of men, and are definitely not as good as experienced people in this regard.), whether she often goes to dance halls to dance with men with ordinary relationships, etc.
In short, psychological methods rely on your inner experience. An experienced old fox will not be deceived by a fake virgin |
