"Handmade love" can bring out sexual sparks (adult novel about sexual knowledge)

I like watching basketball games but not football, because the former allows physical contact, while the latter "handling" the ball is a foul. For women, love is definitely a "manual job". Many experts say that women fall in love with their ears. That is Qiong Yao-style, with long and short lyrical sentences. But in her little heart, what she loves most is "manual love". Every stitch, every move, every move can "touch" the spark of love.
Men who take action are more confident and powerful. Xiao firmly believes this. Every time she parted after a date with Wang Nian, she would think of the different behaviors of her previous three boyfriends: A was "Goodbye then!" and then he would turn around and leave without hesitation; B was if Xiao didn't say anything, he would never mention when they would date again, a dry and passive man; C was after saying goodbye, when Xiao walked a few steps and looked back, she would definitely find that he was still looking at Xiao, but he was always too careful, and his body language was degenerate... But Wang Nian was different from them. Every time he was about to leave, he would pat Xiao on the shoulder or back, and then turn around "reluctantly". That gentle pat or two deeply touched Xiao's heart. It was something electrified, and she was lit up by Wang Nian.
Language is "organized", but subconscious actions are sincere and genuine. Xiao recognized this and married Wang Nian, who loved to "touch" her, without hesitation. What touched Xiao the most was that her husband liked to hold her hand when crossing the road, "which was more comfortable than having sex." Xiao never concealed her true inner needs. What is even more valuable is that they like to go shopping hand in hand, bargain, and then laugh at themselves. They are not rich, but they like to go to some high-end and exquisite shops, and they are capable of pointing out the shortcomings of every piece of clothing. When the husband helps his wife try on clothes, he will authoritatively pull the corner of her clothes, adjust the collar, and stroke her shoulders... and finally express regret: "It would be better if the sleeves were changed in style; if the color was softer; if the Chinese buttons were more creative..." Stepping out of the store, Xiao would playfully use "one-finger Zen" to touch Wang Nian's high nose or wide forehead: "It would be better if I had money..." Then the two of them smiled knowingly. This is their unique skill of performing romance with bare hands, using only two pairs of hands, because love is handmade.