Occasional premature ejaculation is not abnormal (adult novel about sexual knowledge)

Occasional premature ejaculation is not abnormal premature ejaculation and is one of the common sexual dysfunctions in men. It refers to ejaculation after a very short sexual intercourse. Some men cannot complete sexual intercourse at all. In some cases, ejaculation occurs before the penis has touched the woman or just touched the female vulva or vaginal opening, or as soon as the penis is inserted into the vagina (generally less than 2 minutes). After ejaculation, the penis becomes flaccid and cannot maintain normal sexual life.
Premature ejaculation brings troubles to the couple's life. Because the sexual intercourse is short, it ends before both parties can get into the mood.
Unable to obtain sexual satisfaction, if premature ejaculation persists for a long time, sometimes it will lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.
There are many causes of premature ejaculation, but they can be summarized into two categories: mental and physiological.
The main causes of premature ejaculation are as follows:
1. In youth, people are usually in good health, full of energy and prone to sexual impulses. If they read books or watch videos involving sex, excessive sexual desire and impulses will make the nerve center that controls ejaculation extremely excited, leading to emotional excitement and premature ejaculation.
2. Having the habit of masturbation before marriage. Appropriate masturbation itself is not harmful to the body. On the contrary, it can release sexual impulses and play a certain balancing role in the body. However, excessive masturbation, or a lack of correct understanding of masturbation and the belief that it is harmful, can result in a heavy mental burden and lead to premature ejaculation.
3. It is not surprising that premature ejaculation occasionally occurs during sexual intercourse, but some people always think of the worst, worrying that premature ejaculation will occur again next time, or that their wives do not adopt an understanding attitude and are too blaming, which increases the mental stress and leads to premature ejaculation again.
The phenomenon of premature ejaculation during the first sexual intercourse of a newly married couple cannot be called premature ejaculation. This is because newly married men have no experience in sexual life, and the various links of the neuroendocrine system have not yet reached the level of coordination. In addition, the nervous system is highly excited, and a considerable amount of semen has accumulated in the sexual organs. Therefore, they can't wait to ejaculate when they encounter sexual stimulation. After a period of time, as you gain experience in sexual life, this situation will naturally disappear.
It can be seen from this that there is no need to worry too much about premature ejaculation. You must treat it correctly and never regard the occasional "premature ejaculation" as an abnormal situation. You must promptly eliminate your psychological pressure, adjust your mental state, let nature take its course, and do not treat sexual life with the mentality of trying to see if the next sexual intercourse is normal, and you must not rush to use it.