Sexual intercourse methods that make women feel ashamed (adult novels about sexual knowledge)

We rarely think about what the nature of sex is. Is it a way to complete human reproduction, a heart-pounding journey, a tool to make money, a means of promotion, or a routine year after year. With the development of civilization, simple sex has been given more and more missions and taboos.
Samantha has a classic saying in "SEX AND THE CITY": "Marriage is the legalization of two people having sex all week long." For human beings who are naturally fickle, this saying is cruel and has a bit of black humor. What's even more black humor is that in this episode, the great sex pragmatist Samantha immediately met a man she had dated 15 years ago at the party of the two newlyweds who were about to "legalize". This man had a quirk when making love: when he climaxed, he liked the other person to hold his hair tightly with her hands. Samantha recognized this "old lover" by this.
1. Violence Xiaoyi, female, 28 years old, office worker "Many men think that when a woman says no, she actually wants it. So my refusal in bed became an excuse for him to force me to have sex. The more I refused him, the more excited he became.
It is unimaginable that most men dream of having sex this way, like a wild animal... We are advanced animals... If you are willing to become animals, I don't want to degrade myself to a cat or dog. "
The main reason most women hate violent sex is not the pain or being against their will, but being "like an animal." Because this sex position makes them feel they are being manipulated and driven.
2. Asked to say dirty words Zhuang Yan, a 20-year-old student "My boyfriend always asks me to say dirty words during sex, such as FUCK ME and other more vulgar words, which I don't like very much... But he said that it would make him more excited. Sometimes when I think about how he is usually gentle and refined, but he is like two different people in bed, I feel really sad. His excitement is exchanged for my embarrassment and disappointment."
For a gentle lady, it is not easy to swear in life, let alone when making love! The more critical factor hidden behind this is that when swear words are used, women will feel that those swear words are directed at themselves and they lack a feeling of being respected. The contrast between the man who usually takes good care of her and the man who makes her say dirty words is too great.
3. Oral sex Yaya, a 30-year-old executive, "I will never give my husband oral sex. I feel embarrassed even to say the word. In my opinion, it is a special method used by prostitutes to attract repeat customers."
Yaya's point of view is rather extreme, but the low acceptance of oral sex was beyond my expectation. In fact, I was very surprised when I first heard a male friend complain that his girlfriend never served him. This time, the results of the survey further confirmed this surprising fact. However, more women are more dissatisfied when men suddenly ask for oral sex in the middle of sex. There are also women who consider it extremely disgusting if the other party presses their head hard while giving them oral sex.
4. Role fantasy is allowed. 25-year-old salesperson: "I don't know since when, my husband has become more creative in sex. There are often some unexpected tricks, such as buying some sex toys, and making love in the bathroom or on the terrace. I can accept all these. But later, he even asked me to play certain roles during sex. He said that this made him more excited, but I felt that some roles, such as prostitutes, were an insult to my personality." Role fantasy in sex may bring more pleasure and imagination to both parties. After all, when two people are together all year round, there are many things that can happen and they may be endless. More often than not, fantasy can fill the gaps in life. However, the fantasies of some characters may require good communication between both parties, otherwise the other party will instinctively resist.
5. Back-entry Xiao Lin, female, 31, customs worker "I hate all passive sex styles, and back-entry is the most typical one. At this time, women are completely passive and dominated by men. That kind of pleasure may only belong to men, but I get a feeling of being toyed with. I don't understand whether I am his lover or his tool in bed in the eyes of men."
Romantic French men have a perception that doggy style sex prevents women from seeing their faces and leads to a lack of communication, so they rarely use this method when they first start dating a woman. But there is no doubt that this position does make it much easier for them to have sex. But women with strong feminist consciousness do not appreciate this gesture.
Sex should be pure, just like sex and feelings. They are the two things in the world that cannot be measured by rules and regulations. Compared to the ethereal nature of love, sex is more visible and tangible, because at least we can use orgasm to judge its quality. Perfect sex does not exist in the world, it only exists in our feelings and minds. So, apart from skills, the most limiting factor in our ability to achieve orgasm is: our mindset. All of the above survey results prove that many women are denying themselves more and better orgasms.
It's not our nature that rejects different ways of making love, but our sense of morality. Not only men can't stand the same old sex, we can't stand it either. But moral sense affects us.
From a psychological point of view, the more natural the sexual contact is, the happier people will be. In various surveys, people with lower cultural levels and lower education levels have a higher chance of having high-quality sex. Sex is a private matter and no one would easily make it public, so we have even more reason not to let moral sense affect the quality of our sex life. Making love is a kind of enjoyment. During the process of making love, we should abandon all moral factors, social roles or cultural habits, etc., make love simple and pure, so that we can enjoy complete pleasure.