My husband's desire is too strong and we must have sex every two days (sex knowledge adult novel)

Reading tips: He said he was under a lot of pressure at work and needed sex to relieve stress, but I never understood and never gave him a chance. He also said that if I didn't have sex with him, he wouldn't love me as much. Please see Teacher Han Bing’s answer.
Netizens confide:
I am 26 years old, have been married for only two months, and currently work in a foreign-funded enterprise.
My husband is a teacher. Because he gets off work very late at night, we have dinner very late at night. After dinner, I don’t want to move. I just want to watch TV and then go to sleep.
But he really wants to have sex, and it must be once every two days, very regularly. But I always have no interest. So he just ignored me and basically didn't talk to me the whole day.
He said he was under a lot of pressure at work and needed sex to relieve stress, but I never understood and never gave him a chance. He also said that if I didn't have sex with him, he wouldn't love me as much.
I wonder how this can be the determining factor in a couple’s love? I am confused and sad, what should I do?
Expert response:
If we view sex only as a physical act, it may be somewhat narrow-minded. Sex in a narrow sense is indeed a physical act, with a standard process of caressing, excitement, insertion, release and relaxation.
However, sex in a broad sense is a process of mutual pleasure. First, it is about thinking about the other person, making the other person happy physically and mentally, and then being happy because the other person is happy. Under this principle, both people should take the initiative to let the other know what makes them happiest, and then each get what they need.
Many times, what affects our ability to please ourselves and others during sex are some inappropriate concepts. The body itself is demanding or acceptable, but the concept considers it unacceptable and inappropriate. The more taboos there are in sexual life, the less creative sex will be and the less satisfaction you will get.
For a newlywed couple, having sex two or three times a week is normal. If it's a matter of time, you can try having sex in the morning. If this still doesn't work, then it can only mean that you lack interest in sex. Sex is the highest level in the intimacy hierarchy. Harmonious sex creates a psychological and physical attachment and a feeling of being integrated into life. A marriage without sex will have less love. Rejecting a husband's sexual demands is tantamount to rejecting his intimacy, so it is understandable for a husband to say such things.
Objectively speaking, sexual ability and sexual pleasure need to be cultivated. At the beginning, friction cannot trigger pleasure unless you have a lot of masturbation experience. Regardless of gender, masturbation has a good tolerance training for sexual pleasure. At the same time, masturbation needs to introduce beautiful fantasies. These fantasies stimulate spiritual pleasure. These pleasures are connected with the feelings of sexual organs. People gradually have the ability to experience pleasure and satisfaction through friction.
Many people who lack interest in sex do not benefit from their sex life and lack good experiences, so their sexual needs gradually fade and become suppressed. People's love and obsession with sex are not innate. Sexual pleasure is a neural excitement arc that is gradually constructed by sexual hallucinations, imagination, and distortion of painful experiences.
Symbolically, the fact that the ground does not bear fruit has nothing to do with the land, but has to do with whether you are willing to work hard. The solution is to rebuild your feeling about sex, let your husband first let you achieve a kind of physical pleasure through slow caressing and kissing, maintain this feeling and let your husband enter, so that when your husband wants, those pleasant physical feelings are awakened like conditioned reflex and continue to dominate you.