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A while ago, several of my friends were breaking up, and the reasons seemed to be exactly the same.
The boys are in the military or in graduate school.
As soon as the girl graduated, she started working and got to know her colleagues in the company.
Then the son was born.
Colleagues at the company killed the boys who were studying for a master's degree or defending the country.
The male and female protagonists of these events are old friends.
So I talked to the heroines privately to find out what was going on?
What could easily destroy a relationship of four or five years?
There are even class pairs from junior high school to now,
The result was the same as the first withdrawal.
The girl went out to work and met a single colleague in the company.
Most of these new colleagues are around 27, 28 or 29 years old and have some financial foundation.
Have a car,
Some people have savings of three or four hundred thousand yuan.
Some social experience,
Looks more mature than their previous student boyfriends,
These stories are happening around me all the time.
Girls are attracted by their colleagues' financial ability, or because their colleagues have cars to take them to and from get off work.
Or you may be attracted by your colleagues' humor and maturity.
Gradually, I became distant from my student boyfriend...
When I talked to them, the reasons they gave me were a bit realistic but to the point!!
They told me: "I need to think about my future; I want to find a stable partner;
I want to feel safe..."
Next, what is a sense of security? Answer: "There is an economic foundation."
This sentence, "having an economic foundation", really gave my classmates a wake-up call!!
Students just don’t have money. Is it wrong for students to have no money?
Is it wrong for students not to be able to afford a car?
I smiled and said to a friend who had just broken up with his girlfriend:
"It's not your fault that we broke up. It's because you're a student and you don't have money.
When you are 27 or 28 years old and have a little money in your hands,
When you can afford a car, you can attract girls who are just starting out in society.
But on the other hand, your junior classmates will suffer again, haha!! This is a vicious cycle. "
My dad married my mom when he was twenty-three.
My mother was only 20 years old at that time, and they were classmates in school.
I often hear them talk about the past when they worked hard together.
From renting 500 yuan a month to working hard to achieve my current success,
I often wonder if there are still such couples nowadays.
Yes?! But it should be much less than before.
The phrase "students have no financial resources" has hurt the hearts of many graduate students and boys serving compulsory military service.
The purpose of posting this article is not to question the reality of girls.
But I am questioning the choice between love and bread,
Could it be that years of love can be easily replaced by just some material conditions?
Then we should rewrite the phrase "love is eternal".
I have never encountered such a situation, but it has happened to my classmates dozens of times so far.
I don't mean to attack the reality of girls, but I have seen many examples around me.
From the first day of college till now.
When I was a freshman, I had the blessing of my family.
I had a new car to drive and my pocket money was not restricted. I was often dragged along when I wanted to go to social gatherings.
The reason is simple. I have a car and girls are more willing to go out with me.
So in order to make this social gathering happen, I often came out to arrange flowers,
Even if they have something to do, my friends will borrow my car.
I have to admit that the charm of a BMW is rarely rejected by girls.
I met some girls a few times and went out with them.
The first thing they often say is, "Sure!... Do you have a car? I would only go if I had a car."
When I hear this, I often give those girls a 20% discount before talking to them.
I won't take them seriously anymore.
Anyway, this is the reality, and this kind of mentality is even more unacceptable among students.
After that, I seldom drove on campus because driving prevented me from making genuine friends with girls.
I would rather park my car in a parking lot near the school.
I ride my Dijue 125 to and from school every day.
I would rather pretend to be a poor student,
I like girls who can't be killed by money.
After graduating from university, I was lucky enough to work in the park.
Working in a world-class company gives girls a good reason to seek security.
In Hsinchu, the first words between strangers (no matter what age the girl is) are:
The first question is always: "Where do you work?"
The second sentence must also be: "Which company?"
I have tried giving two answers:
One is to say that I'm just a graduate student.
Another is to tell the truth.
Wow!
I really can't imagine the huge difference in the responses these two answers received.
I remember one time when I was having a drink in a pub and met a girl from Tsinghua University.
They were a group of girls who went to the pub together. I had a pleasant chat with her at that time.
Sure enough, after chatting with me for a few sentences, he started asking standard questions.
Where do you work and for which company?
I told her that I was also a graduate student.
After that, we asked for each other's phone numbers and went our separate ways for the next month.
I have never been able to ask her out for dinner or coffee (I only wanted to ask her out because I thought we could have a good conversation. She is a little younger than me,
But it was quite a conversation)
Anyway, just be cold and act as if you don't know me.
She even told me about a job in the park (a small company I had never heard of)
Other guys are dating her.
There's also the possibility that they'll become boyfriend and girlfriend or something like that.
OK!!FINE! I just want to make friends with her no more
intention.
A few months later, something interesting happened.
I went to Tsinghua University to visit my former classmate. I drove into the campus and just as I parked the car and got out, I ran into her.
I happened to have a meeting at the company that day, so I dressed more formally (compared to going to the pub that day)
So the first thing I did was to take off my sunglasses and say hi to her!!
She didn't recognize me right away. After a moment's pause, she connected me with the graduate student.
She remembered it when she saw the name on the dog tag I was wearing.
Of course, I told her exactly what company I worked for in the park (I didn't mean to show off my company or my position here).
Her eyes widened when she saw my car (I've been driving it since my freshman year, and I don't have the money to buy a car like this now).
Seeing my ID (just a small engineer in a big company),
When I went to see my classmate that day, she stuck to me as if we had known each other for a long time.
After that, I no longer have to call her, she will call me on her own initiative.
She would brag to her classmates that she knew me.
She broke up with her real boyfriend….
(Senior, I’m sorry, although you are my senior, I entered the society earlier than you)
In the third week after she met me on campus,
Her PhD senior who broke up with her contacted me through my classmate.
He wanted to know what was going on.
He talked to me rationally for a while.
I found out that a week after I met that girl,
His class was talking about a white-collar worker his girlfriend knew (he even emphasized that he was in the industrial park, it was so funny that the industrial park was laying off employees),
In fact, from the beginning to the end, I was not a boyfriend and girlfriend with that girl at all (after I met her on campus, I went out to eat with her a few times,
I fired her.
Because she will be easily killed by money, I hate girls who are killed by money).
And that girl used me as an excuse to dump her doctoral senior whom she had known for more than three years within three weeks.
I talked to the senior and explained the whole story (from PUB to now).
He told me that this kind of thing can be found everywhere in Hsinchu.
Then I suddenly realized and remembered the story of my classmate.
The conclusion is that women are not at fault at all.
The fault lies with the man himself. It's not a big deal to be rich!!
I don't even think about the fact that I was also a poor student before, and I only bully poor students.
I don't know how many pairs of people that everyone admired were broken up, and how many vicious cycles were ignited.
It's all the man's fault, who can he blame?
I would like to express my greetings to all the poor students in the world through this article. Don’t be afraid of someone snatching your girlfriend away.
You will have the opportunity to snatch others' things in the future.
God is fair. If someone hits you on the left cheek, you also have the opportunity to hit someone else on the left cheek.
If you keep hitting each other, someone will be unlucky enough to get hit by you.
Don't worry, just serve in the army and study hard, what belongs to you will be yours.
Thoughts: So if you are afraid that your girlfriend will run away = = It is better to break up with her before you go to the army ~ The next one will be better |
