While you are busy experimenting with "fancy sex", don't forget that the emotion of love is the most advanced skill. What have we learned and what have we overlooked through these art films? The movie "Love Is Possible When There Is Heart" demonstrates how "it's OK to make love". When the men in the movie do that, women will "frown with happiness". But it doesn’t tell you how to understand the mood and feelings of the person next to you. She frowned, and the movie tells you she was comfortable. Is it really so? In fact, expressions can be deceiving. She can scream happily, she can hide her unhappiness and endure pain. Only by paying attention can you observe the truth from her subtle reactions and find out what she really likes and dislikes. If you really care about your partner's feelings, you don't need a lot of weird sex positions or dazzling lovemaking techniques. When you touch every inch of her skin, you can tell what she likes and make her fully satisfied. Skills can never defeat love. I wonder if you have noticed the existence of "Paperclip" when you are talking about "Lust, Caution" and are eager to try it: sexual brutality occurs in their first intimate scene; "Paperclip" also occurs at the beginning of lovemaking, without emotion and more like venting; as the plot progresses, when Mr. Yi and Wang Jiazhi develop from a traitor and a spy to lovers, we see a return, without all kinds of tricks, only face-to-face sex and warm hugs. This is a qualitative change, a sublimation, from desire to love. A woman's heart will melt in a loving embrace, not in acrobatic sex positions. Whether women like to be rough or not is really strange. Sometimes they want you to be a little rough and give them a passionate impact. Sometimes they want you to be gentle enough to merge with them. It's not like what's shown in the movies, where all a man needs is strength and aggressiveness. Likewise, you have to understand her body language to see the difference between wanting to and not wanting to. Sex is about anything, no matter the place. The American movie "The Scarlet Letter" tells the story of a "slut". She will always remember what gave her a new life: an affair, a stunning affair that happened in a rice warehouse. Rapid breathing, hugging body drowned in the rice pile. It's really amazing. Suddenly, the concept of sex has been broadened. Where? What props are used? Nothing matters. What matters is what you experience and what you gain. How fresh is it? Without movies, many people might not know how the beauty of sex is achieved. How much space you can open up. "Jan Nam Dang" uses ice cubes to caress the smooth and exposed curve of her back, like ice and fire. "The Bridges of Madison County" sees the passion of the heroine peeking at the hero taking a bath. You can see that early morning kissing is enough to lead to passionate sex. Kissing each other when going out, saying "I love you" on the phone, you can see many ways to manage passion and learn how to develop yourself and him. Having a rich imagination is not enough, you also need the imagination of movies. Sex sometimes needs some freshness. Learned to hold hands and look at each other |