As the saying goes, "Know yourself and know your enemy, and you will win every battle." Have you ever thought about whether you can really bring happiness to your sexual partner? It is important to learn correct sexual knowledge regularly, but from another perspective, women talking about their worst sexual experiences can also be a learning experience. Bad sexual experiences are a fact that men may not want to face. 1. Size is the most important "He is the best man I know. It is so sweet to be with him. Unfortunately, his size is only as small as my pinky finger. No matter how hard I try, it can only be as big as my thumb. If he were not so small, I would have the best experience. Unfortunately, nothing is so perfect. Sorry, he is really too small." Comment: The size issue has always been a problem that bothers men. If it is really too small, the only way to remedy it is to use other methods, such as using more sweet words and spending more time in a romantic environment, or putting more effort into foreplay to make up for the inherent deficiencies. 2. Do not harass "My boyfriend and I are both impatient. Once, we thought no one was home, so we did it without even closing the door. We also did it from behind. Just when we were getting into it, my mother suddenly rushed in and screamed. It was so embarrassing. Since then, he has not dared to come to my house again." Comment: If you want to reduce these embarrassing situations, of course it is best to make sure to choose a suitable place in advance. An environment that is suitable for two people is a must. Otherwise, finding a good couple hotel may also be a good idea. Better safe than sorry! 3. Misuse of female condoms "That was our first time using female condoms, and it was definitely a bad experience. At first my boyfriend said it was like a small plastic bag, convenient and easy to use, but it was actually very difficult to put it into the body. In short, it felt weird, and it made a weird sound like squeezing a plastic bag. It was really uncomfortable. If men think condoms are bad, women's condoms are several times worse." 4. Props add fun "My boyfriend said sex toys can increase pleasure and make sex more enjoyable. But the toy was so ineffective and he didn't know how to use it. It made me feel uncomfortable. Not only did I not feel pleasure, but we had a big fight because of it." Comment: It is often said that love toys can increase the sexual interest of men and women, but the key is to use them properly rather than blindly follow them. It is basic to ask about the correct usage before purchasing and using them. What is more important is to consider whether the woman can really accept it, or to communicate clearly in advance, otherwise it will only backfire. 5. Bigger is not necessarily better "My first love was a muscular man with the most perfect body shape. His was also really big, so our first contact was never completed. We tried three positions and none of them worked. But the worst thing was his attitude towards sex. He was arrogant and thought, 'My thing is big and I have great sexual ability.' To be honest, a girl's willingness to have sex does not mean she is a slut." 6. Accidents can happen at any time "The most embarrassing thing for me was asking a friend for information on contraception. I had to face the embarrassment because of my impulse. Even if I were given another chance, I would have taken safety measures in advance and would not have to worry about it afterwards." Comment: Safe sex is worth promoting. We should know that accidents can happen at any time. It is better to take preventive measures in advance. Even if you are impulsive, it only takes a few seconds to put on a condom. Isn't it that such a short time can't wait? Because in addition to pregnancy, you may also get other infectious diseases. It is better to be safe! 7. The most fearful thing is to compare goods. "My last boyfriend and I were good friends and I liked him very much. But after we had sex for the first time, he compared me with his ex-boyfriend intentionally or unintentionally. I tolerated it once, but it happened twice and three times. You can say I am stingy, but I decided not to be with him anymore." Comment: It has been said many times that women are most afraid of being compared with men. What's more, the most intimate sexual contact was used by the other party to compare with his ex-girlfriend, which is basically the same as suicide. If you want to have a good sex life, don't talk nonsense. You can imagine it with your own brain. Why bother talking too much? 8. Inconsistency between appearance and reality "My last lover was stylish and manly. But the first time we made love, when he took off his coat, I saw his old, ripped, stained underwear. My interest dropped dramatically and I lost all my excitement. This experience was really bad for me." |