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God gave women curvy bodies to remind men that they should use their hands to caress her body instead of rushing into her.
If a man can remember this baseball game sex metaphor, foreplay will take on a whole new importance in his mind, and he will begin to truly understand why foreplay is so important to women. It's as if God gave women curvy bodies to remind men that they should use their hands and fingers to caress her body instead of rushing into it recklessly.
Women have three main sensitive areas - the two breasts and the vagina, rather than any one specific area being an erogenous zone. These three erogenous zones also remind a man that he should use his hands and tongue at the same time.
When a man uses his right hand, sometimes he can use one finger and sometimes three. He could stroke her body in a straight line or he could move along the curves of her body. Sometimes he can be soothing in a calm and powerful way, and sometimes he can be extremely gentle. He could use his fingers to explore her body from right to left, or he could move his fingers up and down. Every little change can satisfy a woman's desire for change.
As long as a man is willing to spend time increasing foreplay and caressing, he can make a woman enjoy more pleasure; don't forget that women need ten times more foreplay and caressing time than men. When a man is older, he may need a little more time to feel aroused, and at this time, a woman may ask for less. Men must remember: the key to ensuring a woman's satisfaction is not what he does, but how much time he spends doing it.
If she hasn't orgasmed after thirty minutes of foreplay and caressing, it's almost certain that she won't orgasm. However, with further study, if he continues a little longer, the woman may still reach orgasm. In order to get clear feedback from men.
If the man has already stimulated her a lot and there is still no effect, but she wants him to continue, then she can say:
“I like it this way.”
"I know it's been a long time, but it feels good!"
"I don't want you to come in yet. I like the way it is now."
Of course, if a woman continues to indulge in a man's gentle caresses, the man will begin to feel pain because he feels as if she is not responding. At this time, women can use the following words to help men move on:
"I know I'm quiet, but I really like it this way."
"I love what you're doing for me right now, it relaxes me and opens my heart."
"Oh! that's what I wanted."
When a man hears these words, he can continue to do what he wants with peace of mind without worrying about doing anything wrong. He needs a positive response from women.
If we want to trust each other more and make our passion last longer, we have to spend more time on sex. Men may only need a few minutes of stimulation to reach orgasm, but women generally need more time. With this understanding, a man can be confident in his actions even if his partner takes a little longer to reach orgasm.
The timing of orgasm is the biggest difference between the two sexes in sex. It is in the nature of men to reach orgasm quickly, like fireworks, but women reach orgasm slowly and gradually.
The final tenderness makes the sex life reach perfection. The final tenderness is by no means dispensable, it is also an indispensable part of making the sex life reach perfection. If handled well, it can further enhance the satisfaction of both parties and turn it into an unforgettable feeling of mutual gratitude.
The intercourse is over, but a problem left over from the orgasm has not been solved. This problem is what we call the inconsistent development trends of pleasure between men and women, with men going downwards and women going upwards. It can be said that men enter the final stage of sexual life with a sense of relaxation, while women cannot calm down for a long time. When talking about her troubles in this regard, one wife said that every time they had sex, her husband would fall asleep as soon as he ejaculated, so she had to look at the ceiling and count, often having to count to thousands before she could fall asleep.
The tenderness after sex is by no means optional, it is also an indispensable part of making sex life perfect. If handled well, it can further enhance the satisfaction of both parties and turn it into an unforgettable mutual passion. If not handled properly or completely ignored, the excitement and pleasure generated in sexual life will disappear, leaving only annoyance, regret and dissatisfaction.
Being gentle and affectionate after sex is extremely important to a wife, but many men do not understand this. According to a survey conducted abroad, after sex, 32% of men immediately lie down to adjust their breathing or light a cigarette; 17% of men fall asleep quickly; 14% of men go to the toilet; 9% of men take a shower immediately; 6% of men go to find something to eat or drink; and 2% of men start having sex again.
In the above situations, except for the difficulty in controlling going to the toilet, the other practices can all be changed for your lover. It is normal to feel tired, thirsty, and hungry after sexual intercourse, but these feelings are not very strong and can be overcome with a little suppression. If you don't want to suppress it, then it means there is something wrong with your feelings for your wife. Men who consciously or unconsciously neglect their wives' emotional needs should remember the words of the famous Russian writer Chernyshevsky: "What does it mean to love a person? It means to be happy for his happiness, to do everything necessary to make him happier, and to get happiness from it."
For the sake of your beloved wife, men should not rush to get up after ejaculation. At this time, men usually still have a sufficient erection and can take this opportunity to perform a few more exercises. This movement should be slow and not too large, so that your wife can experience both pleasure and your good intentions. When getting up, the couple should continue to hug for a while and do some caressing. Most of the movements in the caressing stage can be used at this time, but the strength should be gentler. Two people can talk in a low voice to express tenderness and love. It is best not to talk about sex, especially what just happened. Doing this can divert the wife's attention from physical satisfaction to psychological satisfaction.
The caressing movements gradually decreased and finally stopped, and sleepiness made my eyelids heavy. Since both the body and mind have experienced the intense transition from tension to relaxation, sleepiness is inevitable. People usually sleep soundly after having sex. The first person to feel sleepy is a man, and the first person to fall asleep is also a man. Husbands who have deep feelings for their wives should pay attention to changing this situation. Balzac once said, "A husband never has the right to go to bed first." Frank also had a similar statement, "Anyone who does not let his beloved wife go to bed first does not know how wonderful life is." The husband should restrain his sleepiness and let her go to bed first. Also, be careful not to move before she falls asleep to avoid waking her up. The husband should not only go to bed later, but also wake up first. Let your wife see your smiling face as soon as she opens her eyes, which will remind her of last night's sex and plant the "seeds of love" for the next harmonious sex life.
There are also some factors that may undermine the post-incident tenderness. For example, after sex, certain parts of both parties will become moist, and vaginal secretions or semen may flow onto the sheets. This situation is indeed uncomfortable. Therefore, many couples get up immediately to wash, wipe or change the sheets after sex. Although these things are small, the changes are very sudden and can completely change people's emotions. Both parties will feel very awkward when resuming caressing after doing these things. This unpleasant phenomenon can be completely prevented. These problems can be solved by simply preparing a small pad and sanitary napkin before sex. This preparation is often done by the wife, and she does it unconsciously. |
