Licking a woman's vagina is a wonderful thing. From a sexual psychology point of view, the feeling of watching a woman struggling and screaming between your mouth and tongue is very enjoyable. The following guide to cunnilingus refers to men cunnilingus for women. It is based on my own experience. The feelings about women are based on my own observations and feedback from my girlfriend. Tidy it up a bit. 1. Preparation before cunnilingus: Making love is a wonderful thing. If you are not just doing it for venting, you should create some conditions and atmosphere for it, such as at night. Dim the lights a bit. Both parties should take a bath first, especially women, because the structure of women's genitals is more complicated, with more wrinkles, which are easy to hide dirt, so when taking a bath, be sure to turn over the labia majora and minora and clean them thoroughly. Men should turn on some music and wait for her in bed. After washing, women should get used to applying some perfume on their genitals, but never use too strong perfume or too much. Because when a man licks your vagina, his nose is closest to your vagina. If the perfume is too strong, it will easily choke him. Also, don't put perfume on your labia. Because the fragrance of your so-called vaginal fluid is not created by perfume. Just spray the perfume on your palm and apply it on the pubic hair and the base of your thighs. It is also better to gently pounce on the anus. Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel is used to wipe sweat and water. Put a glass of water by the bed. When you are thirsty, it is within easy reach, and you don’t have to run outside to get water, interrupting women’s sensations for too long. Second, several sensitive areas of women: Men should not think that cunnilingus means that as soon as a woman gets in bed, you should pounce on her and kiss her clitoris. Don't be so rough. You should know that women's bodies react very slowly. You need to give them some time to adapt. The clitoris is an absolutely sensitive part. If you stimulate it right from the beginning, the effect will be negative. Personally, I think the order should be like this: you can hug her first and say a few sweet words to her, such as "You are so beautiful, you are so sexy", etc., to make her feel comfortable and relaxed psychologically, and then start kissing her lips, earlobes, back of ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Pay attention to staying on the breasts for a longer time, because women's breasts are also a very important sensitive area. At this point the woman should feel a little tingling all over, and you are starting to get close to her vagina. Start kissing her thighs first, and gently spread her legs apart. Usually women will be shy at this time, because they will feel a little "resistant" to showing their genitals to you. So don't be too hasty or too forceful when spreading the other person's legs; do it gently, little by little. Start to flick your tongue over her thighs, from the outside of her labia majora to the crotch of her thighs, and lick from the bottom to the top of her hip bone. (On both sides of the lower abdomen), repeat nearly ten times, women will feel itchy and numb, and there will be a sore and swollen feeling near the vaginal opening. Use your tongue to gently sweep along the thigh to the Zusanli point under the knee. Zusanli is also a sensitive point for women. If the other person's skin is tender, you can kiss this part a few more times. If the other person's skin is poor and kissing it feels like using your tongue on sandpaper, then forget it, just kiss back, hehe. Kiss back to the base of the thigh and repeat the movements taught above. This move is called "assist" in military terms. In bed, you should treat women as "enemies, opponents", distract the "enemy's" attention first, take the initiative, and mobilize the "enemy's" sense to follow your tongue. Fight guerrilla warfare on any mountain (breast), hill (lower abdomen), ravine (thigh root), or woods (mons pubis and pubic hair area) on her body. Slowly, you will feel the woman begin to curl up, her legs will swing involuntarily, she will moan, and the vaginal opening of a more sensitive woman will begin to become wet. After the assist is completed (about ten minutes), start the main attack! Through assisting, you have basically conquered the shyness of women and eliminated her psychological defenses. At this time, she will be in a state of wanting to refuse but also wanting to accept. Men can also move into the main attack position and begin a frontal assault. At this time, women should take the initiative to spread their legs into an eight-shaped shape, and it is best to lean their legs back to expose their entire genitals to the man. There is nothing to be shy about. You should know that if you take the initiative at this time, you can provide men with greater motivation and investment. When the woman raises her legs and opens them, the man must first conquer several important strongholds in the main attack direction, namely the woman's perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is the connecting part between the female vagina and anus. Although the skin in this area is very tight, it is extremely sensitive. You should gently lick this area with a wet tongue. When you kiss the base of a woman's thigh, she will feel numbness and soreness from the top to the bottom of her vagina. When you kiss the perineum, she will have a comfortable feeling of expansion from the bottom to the top. When kissing a woman's perineum, if you can overcome the greater psychological barriers, you can use a surprise attack to lick and touch the woman's anus with your tongue. I guarantee that women will scream and shout in excitement at this time. If you have psychological barriers, lick from the perineum all the way up to the female labia. At this time, I believe most women will be full of water. At this time, the vaginal fluid of women is mostly transparent and thin. If you like, you can drink it (no joke). It is just secreted from the female body. It won’t get dirty. How should you kiss the labia? Don't do anything at this time. Use your tongue to pry the woman's labia majora apart (some women's labia majora are smaller, or when the woman is more excited, the labia may have separated by itself); hold one of the woman's labia in your mouth and sweep it with your tongue. Take care of both the inside and outside of the labia, then change one labia and continue the same action. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, with your lips parallel to the woman's labia, and gently take both of her labia into your mouth and suck them together. Use your tongue to insert, pull out and sweep in between the two labia, and the woman will feel extremely comfortable. As mentioned above, how to kiss a woman's labia. Remember, when kissing a woman's labia, suck her labia into your mouth as much as possible, and lick it lightly with your tongue. Women may feel that their labia area is particularly itchy, and they want you to kiss them more and wider. Ignore them, just kiss them. Because few women would say, "Honey, kiss me there, and then kiss me there..." While they are enjoying it, you can gently bite her labia. The flesh is in your mouth, so it's up to you whether to bite it or not and how to bite it. But don't bite too hard, just enough to make her scream suddenly, thus basically destroying the feeling she has just accumulated. Why would you destroy women's feelings for no reason? Male sexual excitement is achieved through the friction between the eyes and sexual organs. This direct stimulation can make men reach orgasm quickly. If expressed in the form of a graph, it can be likened to Mount Everest, going straight up and down. Women's sexual excitement is accumulated through their ears (listening to your sweet words) and brain (imagination and feelings), and reaching orgasm requires multiple stimulations and accumulation. To express it in a graph, the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau is a trapezoid. After the last round of kissing, the woman has reached a certain point of excitement and is a little confused. It’s not good to be too confused, because once a woman is confused she won’t know who is kissing her, haha! Just kidding. Biting her lightly can wake her up from her drowsy state, and then letting her accept your continued stimulation while she is half drunk and half awake will make her sexual excitement come faster and accumulate more next time. This must be repeated when performing cuntlicking on a woman, but not too frequently, or you might get kicked off the bed. Hey! Be careful when biting. The labia are very tender. When you lightly bite a woman's labia, she will definitely scream and her body will twitch. Before she can say anything, you quickly put your lips on her vaginal opening. This method can make women feel that their entire vagina is warm and comfortable. The "Fang" just now will turn into a light "ah" before she finishes screaming. This can make women feel like they want to curse but can't, and want to scream but don't dare to. It's really fun. After you have "conquered" the female's "outer strongholds" (perineum, labia, anus, etc.), you can start the "Xu-Beng Battle". In the terminology of the bedroom, Some people call the female vagina a "clam (labia)", which is quite vivid. Moreover, there is indeed a "pearl (clitoris)" inside the "clam". As mentioned above, lightly biting a woman's labia and then quickly blocking her vaginal opening with your lips can make her feel warm and comfortable. Now is the time to start. You should use your thumbs to gently spread her labia apart, exposing the vaginal opening, and use your tongue to circle around the vaginal opening, sometimes lightly, sometimes heavily, and sometimes stick your entire lips against it. Remember not to blow air into a woman's vagina. It's not fun and can easily lead to accidents. At this time, the woman's attention is all focused on the vagina, and the clitoris begins to swell and become exposed (some women's clitoris is very small and not easy to be exposed, If you meet such a woman, don't look for her blindly). If you haven't kissed her clitoris yet, she will just feel it's swollen and there shouldn't be much feeling. At this time, you can stop kissing the vaginal opening and use the wet tip of your tongue to gently touch her clitoris a few times to arouse her senses from the clitoris. The woman will moan softly a few times, and then you go back to kiss her vaginal opening and labia. At this time, the girl's clitoris has just been stimulated, and she will be in a state of wanting you to kiss her clitoris again. Remember, no matter what, do not kiss her clitoris at this time. Let the woman hang in that feeling, and the man should start to lick from the woman's perineum to the clitoris, slowly, and move the tongue left and right when it reaches the vaginal opening, spreading the labia while continuing to lick upwards. Move closer to the clitoris little by little. At this time, the woman should be telling herself in her heart "It's here, I'm about to kiss it, hurry up, hurry up and hold it in your mouth". No matter how the woman screams or pulls you, just don't kiss the clitoris. When you are almost there, use the tip of your tongue to gently, the lighter the better, just lightly sweep and tap her clitoris (with some saliva on your tongue), and then lick towards the vaginal opening in the opposite direction according to the above kissing method. This will make the woman anxious to death, and when she is anxious, Naturally I was excited. When kissing the vaginal opening, men with long tongues can try to insert their tongues into the woman's vagina and stir it. You can stir it in any way you want, as long as you can do it. Women find this trick very useful, but men should be careful with the root of their tongue, as it may get hurt if it is stretched too long. Men with thick tongues (like me, so pitiful) can only insert a small part, but they can roll up their tongues and insert them, although not much. But it can make women feel bloated. Moreover, the feeling of a broad tongue sweeping upward from the bottom of the vaginal opening is something that a man with a slender tongue cannot give to a woman. A man with a slender tongue can use the tip of his tongue to lightly pick the middle seam of a woman's labia, which is also very comfortable. Each has its own advantages. Now you can focus on the "Pearl of Persuasion". Please move your tongue up to the woman's clitoris and concentrate. Many men may think that they can make women orgasm just by licking the woman's clitoris with their tongue. This is a bit wrong. The woman's clitoris is very sensitive. If you lick it too hard, It would be meaningless if she felt more pain than pleasure. There are a few things to note when kissing the clitoris. The tongue must be wet, light, and pointed. The tongue must be kept moist (the water prepared earlier can be used now). When kissing and licking the clitoris, be gentle and use the tip of your tongue. To attack the clitoris, you need to use the five-word technique of "tap, pick, flick, press, and stir": tap means lightly touching the top of the female clitoris with the tip of the tongue; pick means moving the tongue upward from the bottom of the clitoris; flick means moving the female clitoris left and right with the tongue; press means pressing the female clitoris with the tongue from time to time, just press it down slightly; and stir means stirring around the female clitoris with your tongue while you hold the female clitoris in your mouth. From this point on, you need to grasp the woman's reaction, because at this time the woman is already very involved and excited. You can feel that there seem to be some tendons beating under her clitoris, which is very obvious when you hold the woman's clitoris in your mouth. Don't interrupt women's feelings casually, and move evenly. Because your sudden and fast-paced movements can easily make women reach orgasm. When men have sex, they always hope to last longer and ejaculate later so that they can feel more comfortable. At this time, women, like men, hope that this extremely comfortable feeling will last longer, so you must be considerate of women's feelings. Unless the other party strongly asks you to "give" her, or your tongue becomes numb due to kissing for too long, you should use a fast pace to make the other party reach orgasm. There is a very useful technique. Don't learn the random licking method of the male protagonists in adult movies, and don't always kiss the female clitoris in the above method. When you have done these actions almost enough and feel that you can give the other person an orgasm, you should hold the woman's clitoris with your entire lips, with your upper lip pressed against the root of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and your lower lip separating the woman's labia to the left and right, as close to the vaginal opening as possible (it depends on how big your lips are, hehe). Put your mouth around the woman's clitoris (leave some space) so that she feels like her clitoris is floating in your mouth. Use the five-word technique to launch an attack. This is the most meaningful moment for a man to lick a woman's vagina, because you can control the other person's excitement and orgasm through your mouth, lips and tongue. Usually I lick her for a round, let her twitch violently, and when she is about to reach orgasm, I gently let go of her clitoris. Make her so angry that she screams, or as soon as you leave and see her about to scream, immediately put it in your mouth, and she will not be able to scream anymore once she feels comfortable. How proud you feel when you see that you can control a woman's emotions! But don't go too far, or your partner will kick you off the bed. |