On the Road to Sexual Happiness: Two First Nights in a Woman's Life (Sexual Knowledge Adult Fiction)

The first sexual intercourse is unforgettable. The first night and the first time after childbirth are two important first times on the road to female sexual happiness...
My first sexual contact Wenwen (pseudonym), 26 years old, assistant On this year's Valentine's Day, the bouquet of roses that the beautiful etiquette lady sent me almost caused a sensation in the entire office building. Ms. Huang from the office said enviously, "It must be a gift from Lin Xiang, the boy is quite romantic. When will you invite us to your wedding?" My face turned red immediately, and my colleagues laughed even more happily. In fact, the flowers in my heart are also blooming! Lin Xiang proposed to me! On the small card that came with it, Lin Xiang wrote a sentence: "Dear, marry me!" Every detail of our three years of passionate love reappeared in my mind, and happiness spread throughout my body. So I took out my mobile phone and sent Lin Xiang a text message: Pick a good day.
On the wedding night, after seeing off the friends and relatives who had come to make a fuss in the bridal chamber, a touch of ambiguity was added to the festive atmosphere in the house. Lin Xiang picked me up and threw me on the bed, kissing me non-stop and touching my body all over with his hands. I let his hands move across my warm body and responded enthusiastically to his unrestrained passion. Aren’t the countless rejections in passionate love just to make this wedding night worthy of its name and make this first time unforgettable? Lin Xiang lightly took off my and his clothes, and I closed my eyes shyly. Lin Xiang kissed my earlobes and whispered in my ear: "Baby, you are so beautiful!" I felt my blood boiling and Lin Xiang's breathing became rapid. When Lin Xiang found my secret area with great difficulty, I couldn't help but screaming in pain. I pushed him hard with both hands to prevent him from moving, and tears suddenly flowed out. Seeing my tears streaming down my face, Lin Xiang was so heartbroken that he didn't dare to go any closer. He just held me silently and kept saying, "Don't cry, baby. I won't let you get hurt. It'll hurt me if you cry." Lying in his arms, listening to his whispers, my heart was filled with emotion. I was touched by his thoughtfulness and his love for me, and I deeply felt that our love was sublimated.
Although it was not the first successful time, it was definitely unforgettable and touching. The bitterness was filled with sweetness. After more than four months of hard work and exploration, we finally passed that level. Now every time is harmonious and beautiful, but the first time made me remember it in my heart and moved me forever!
Expert comment: Few couples use the word "successful" to describe their first sexual intercourse. This is because harmonious sex requires tacit cooperation between both parties, and the premise of tacit cooperation is a certain degree of mutual understanding and familiarity, including understanding of each other's bodies, psychological differences between men and women, sexual preferences and many other details. When it comes to the first time making love, all of this may be blank. Add to that the physical fatigue brought about by preparing for the wedding and welcoming guests, and it is common that the first time of pleasure is not so satisfactory.
Although there are these discordant factors, we still hope that your first time will be happy and unforgettable, so open the "sweet tips" we have prepared for you.
(1) Pay attention to the hygiene of sexual organs. The groom should wash his penis and scrotum and remove the smegma. The bride should clean the external genitalia, because the female external genitalia has many wrinkles and is close to the anus, which is easily contaminated by bacteria. Therefore, both men and women should maintain good hygiene of their sexual organs before having sex to avoid infections of the reproductive and urinary systems.
(2) Maintain a good attitude and be considerate and cooperative with each other. The wedding night is also a test for the psychology of both men and women. Some people attach great importance to a woman's hymen. If they find that the woman has not had any bleeding, they will assume that she has had sex, which will leave a psychological shadow on her. In fact, some women are born without an obvious hymen, some women have a more elastic hymen, some women have a tough or thick hymen, some women have a hymen that continues to shrink and even disappear, and some women have a hymen that naturally ruptures due to strenuous exercise... For these reasons, of course, you may not see blood on your first night. Due to excessive mental excitement and lack of experience, men are prone to premature ejaculation during sexual intercourse. This is not what we call "premature ejaculation". The groom does not have to bear a heavy mental burden. The bride should give her husband more comfort and understanding, help her husband eliminate fear and tension, and do not complain or despise, let alone blame. In addition, the groom should properly restrain his desire for quick success, give the bride gentle and considerate caresses, relieve the bride's tension and doubts, arouse her sexual impulse, and have sexual intercourse after the bride's emotions and sexual impulses reach a certain level and her vulva is moist. The bride also needs to overcome her nervousness and fear and cooperate happily with the groom. If the hymen is ruptured and pain occurs, the bride can bend her legs upward and spread them apart, support them with her hands, and hold her breath downward to relieve the pain. If the pain is severe and bleeding is heavy, consult a doctor.
(3) Take effective contraceptive measures. Since both parties are relatively tired when they are newly married and have more opportunities to smoke and drink, if they become pregnant, it will often affect the health of the pregnant woman and the development of the fetus. Therefore, appropriate contraceptive methods must be used. How does a woman spend her two first times?
The first intimate contact after childbirth Honger, 29, a teacher, remembered seeing such a sentence in a magazine: Sex determines the quality of marriage. Without sex, marriage is like a dried-up river, losing its vitality. My husband and I wholeheartedly agree with this insightful opinion. Our hard and busy life has become full of fun because of our varied sex life. In the second year of our marriage, I became pregnant. We loved each other cautiously, and the scenery on the road to sexual happiness was still romantic and colorful, leaving us with endless aftertastes.
After ten months of pregnancy and experiencing pain that cannot be described in words, I gave birth to my little cutie. But this pretty little cutie made us experience the happiness and joy of being parents for the first time, but also put our love into trouble.
After I gave birth, my husband brought his parents over and hired an experienced confinement nanny to take care of me, which helped me recover quickly. On that moonlit night, I put my child to sleep early, sprinkled a light perfume on my body after taking a bath, put on thin and transparent underwear, chose a sexy sleeping position, and waited quietly for my husband to push the door open. My husband looked surprised and almost jumped on me to hug me, whispering exaggeratedly: "How long have we not been together? I feel like a century!" My husband's enthusiasm ignited the desire in my heart. I responded to his caress and kiss and climbed to the peak of love with him. However, when we became one, I felt a vague pain in my lower body. I didn't want to spoil my husband's sexual desire, so I endured it silently. But my body was dissatisfied with the pain, and I no longer actively cooperated, but just coped with it. I think my husband must have sensed my unwillingness and hurriedly ended this sexual journey.
A few days later, we tried again, but it still ended in a bad way. I really can't understand why the once harmonious and happy beauty suddenly left us? Is there any way to make it come back to us?
Expert comment: There are many women in life who are like Hong'er. After welcoming the lovely little angel in the sweet pain, the originally passionate love becomes like tasteless boiled water, with neither happiness nor satisfaction. Why is my sexual desire not as good as before after I had a baby? Is there any solution?
Birth injuries, body shape changes, fatigue from taking care of the baby... will all affect the quality of your sex life to a certain extent, but you don't have to worry. Under the guidance of a doctor, you can still have perfect intimate contact after giving birth.
(1) Time to resume sexual intercourse. Generally speaking, the best time to resume sexual intercourse is 6 to 8 weeks after delivery. Six weeks after delivery, new mothers must return to the hospital for a check-up. The doctor will usually check whether the wound has healed, whether the stitches have been completely absorbed, whether the uterus has returned to normal, and whether the ovulation cycle has begun. If your doctor tells you that you are recovering well, you can resume your sexual life.
(2) Give yourself more positive psychological hints. For example, "I love my body" and "I long to have sex with my lover." If you are still not interested, don't force it. Even just hugging each other tenderly and falling asleep is a good start.
(3) First settle the baby. The little guy doesn't understand romance, so before doing anything intimate, you must settle him down first. The best way is to feed the baby and let him sleep peacefully. Moreover, if he is breastfed, the breasts will not feel swollen and uncomfortable after breastfeeding, which will also help the love between couples.
(4) Adequate foreplay to warm up passion. Since the body secretes less lubricating fluid after giving birth, you should do enough foreplay or use vaginal lubricant during postpartum intercourse, especially the first time, to prevent discomfort caused by vaginal dryness.
(5) Pay attention to contraception. According to statistics, new mothers who do not breastfeed or breastfeed less than 3 times a day may resume ovulation function within about 8 weeks, so you must pay attention to contraception when resuming sexual life after childbirth. You can use condoms or insert an IUD.
Ingredients for the passionate rose bath recipe: 100 grams of dried rose.
Method: Crush the rose slightly, wrap it in a small gauze bag, place it in the bathtub, add appropriate amount of hot water, wait for the fragrance to soak out, and then take a bath.
Effect: Rose has been recognized as an effective aphrodisiac since ancient times. Its fragrant scent has a passionate effect, and it can also promote blood circulation, improve endocrine function, and let you enjoy sweet sex.