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The joy brought by marriage also comes from a pleasant sex life. Therefore, every woman should have some knowledge of sex to get the greatest satisfaction.
A harmonious sex life means that both husband and wife are in harmony during sex, both can have orgasm, and both get sexual pleasure and satisfaction. The establishment of harmony is achieved through the emotional state, accumulated experience, and tacit cooperation of both husband and wife.
1. Read a romance novel. Generally speaking, men are easily stimulated by images and women are easily stimulated by words. The descriptions of the two sexes in romance novels can make you indulge in certain sexual fantasies and arouse your sexual desire. So, you could read a romance novel an hour before you're ready to have sex.
2. Express your request boldly. Just lying in bed and thinking, "He will caress my sensitive areas soon, I know he will", is not only too optimistic, but also a waste of wonderful sex time. The mouth isn't just for kissing; it's also for telling each other what arouses you and what doesn't. Instead of just criticizing by saying “You don’t touch my breasts enough”, the effect will be completely different if you say “I like you kissing my breasts, can you kiss them a little longer?” It is better to tell him what he did right rather than to list a lot of his shortcomings, so that your suggestions sound more positive. You can also ask him if he likes heavier or lighter touches? Which technique does he think is best? You want to understand what excites him and makes him feel comfortable, and he will also be happy to ask you if he needs to improve.
3. Sleep on smooth and shiny sheets. When the flawlessly clean, satin-smooth sheets touch your naked skin, you can't help but be aroused, and the strong sexual desire will indulge all your senses. Silky smooth sheets are just one of a million ways to do that. Change the sensory stimulation every time you have sex so it won’t be boring. Use music to stimulate his hearing or talk to him during sex, describe your feelings to him in detail, ignite his sense of smell with burning essential oils, and apply perfume so that he can appreciate the natural and sweet body fragrance you exude when you are excited. Caress with different materials, such as your hair, decorative feathers, scarves or fingers; use food, champagne and all parts of your body to please his taste buds.
4. Dare to say "no" in a kind manner. It is not possible to have sex or think about having sex at any time. Everyone's sexual desire is affected by hormone levels, stress and health conditions. If you're in bed and just want to sleep, it's better to say "no" than to pretend. You can honestly say "I'm so tired, I just want to cuddle" or "I don't feel any emotions at all, I don't know why", and that's enough to make him understand that you are rejecting sex and not rejecting him. However, if saying "no" will cause controversy, then you should consider not saying "no" too often.
5. Men also like foreplay. Some men still think that foreplay is what women love, so they must do it until the woman is satisfied. However, many men find that kissing, licking, touching and poking are indeed wonderful. They like to delay intercourse because they know they will feel more aroused that way. When he's giving you foreplay, he'll be observing your body as he hugs and caresses you, while also increasing his own sexual desire. If you also pay attention to his whole body and his feelings, he will cherish it even more.
6. Don’t fake an orgasm. We often fake orgasms to complete sex, and men rarely notice because we are afraid of hurting their feelings. Some sex therapists point out that if you can orgasm 90% of the time when you have sex with your partner, then you can fake the remaining 10%. But if you've never orgasmed with him, there's no point in pretending. Why will he keep learning if he keeps thinking he's done it? Have the courage to tell him, "Actually, that didn't work for me... this will work..." You will both be happier. |
