Correctly understand women's sexual signals (sex knowledge adult novel)

Many wives admit that they need caressing and crave to be touched, hugged and kissed, but this demand does not mean sex. Husbands often misunderstand their wives' intentions. Once they see their wives showing enthusiasm, they assume that they want to have sex, so they begin to take action. At this time, the wives have no choice but to go along with it. The result is that the husband thinks he has met his wife's demands, but the wife feels a little aggrieved.
Both parties are responsible for this misunderstanding between men and women regarding sex. For men, the most important thing is to eliminate the misconception that "sex equals sexual intercourse".
Normal men and women, both physically and mentally, desire to achieve sexual satisfaction through sexual contact. However, men and women have different requirements for the purpose of sexual contact. Generally speaking, after a man's sexual desire is aroused, all the caresses he gives to a woman are aimed at sexual intercourse. Women are different. Their sexual arousal is passive. When they receive physical intimacy such as hugging, kissing, and caressing from men, they only feel emotional satisfaction at first. Before their sexual desire is aroused, these physical contacts can also give them a good feeling.
From a psychological point of view, most women have a "self-love mentality", that is, they hope to be loved by others. Therefore, women often hint at this need to men consciously or unconsciously. In fact, their sex life focuses more on psychological satisfaction. A man's physiological sensations during the entire sexual process are most intense in the final stage of sexual intercourse. Compared to this, the feelings before this become insignificant. Based on their own experiences, men believe that women are the same as themselves, so they can't wait to escalate sexual contacts. This is exactly a misunderstanding.
To eliminate this misunderstanding, men should know that women's demands for sex are often no less than sexual intercourse, and that they often get more of the wonderful feeling of being loved during sex. This is completely different from men.
As far as women are concerned, when they send out hints that they need caressing, they should consider whether this hint itself may be misunderstood by men. You should make the hint clearer and don't be stingy with your words. Even if a man understands your hint, you should still be careful about the rhythm and intensity of the caress.