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You don't have to give her diamonds or agates, let alone buy her a car or a house. As long as you can do the following small things, I guarantee that she will love you forever.
1. Plan your date in advance. Don’t wait until the weekend to ask her what she wants to do.
2. Ask him how his day went, including what he plans to do (e.g., what was the result of your doctor's visit)
3. Practice listening and asking questions
4. Sympathize with her problems, don’t try to solve them
5. Compliment her appearance
6. Give her a bouquet of flowers on special holidays or occasions to surprise her
7. Say thank you when she does something for you
8. When holding hands, don’t let your hands be weak
9. If you are going to be late, call her and let her know, but don't make up a bunch of excuses for being late.
10. Validate her feelings when she is sad
11. Help her when she is tired
12. Don’t forget to open the bottle and insert the straw when she drinks.
13. Call her at work to ask how she is, share something exciting, or tell her "I love you".
14. Whenever her feelings are hurt, offer her sympathy and tell her, "I'm sorry that you feel hurt." Then be silent and let her feel that you understand her hurt. Don't offer solutions or explain that her hurt is not yours.
15. Compliment her on her hair after it’s been done
16. Don’t glance at other girls while you’re talking to her
17. When traveling, arrange your itinerary more loosely so that she doesn’t feel rushed
18. When she talks to you, put down the newspaper or turn off the TV and give her your full attention.
19. Open the door or car door for her
20. Pay attention to her when she is sad or tired, ask her what she wants to do, and then help her do it.
21. When you go out, ask her if she needs to buy something. If she does, don’t forget to buy it.
22. Pull out the chair for her
23. Let her see you keep her pictures in your wallet and keep changing them.
24. When she shares her feelings with you every day, you should be patient and don't look at the watch.
25. Tell her "I love you" at least a few times a day
26. Ask her how she feels now
27. Clean the car and the interior before going on a date with her
28. Don’t be too clingy. Give each other some space.
29. If you are away from home, call to let them know you are safe and leave a phone number where you can be reached.
30. Help her wash her car
31. Whenever you need to leave, let her know you will be back.
32. Take a shower before sex and put on some cologne if she likes it.
33. When she gets angry at someone, take her away
34. Massage her back, neck or feet
35. Sometimes, even if there is no sex, you should create a hug or a tender atmosphere.
36. When you get home, don’t do anything else, look for her first and hug her.
37. Don’t use the remote control to change channels when she’s watching TV with you.
38. Show your feelings for her in public
39. If she is sick, ask for the latest updates
40. Know her favorite drink, so when necessary, you can give her her favorite choice.
41. When eating out, suggest different restaurants so she doesn’t have to worry about finding one.
42. Buy her tickets to a play, concert, opera, dance, or other performance she likes.
43. Create opportunities for the two of you to dress up nicely
44. Be considerate of her lateness or last-minute changes of clothing
45. Pay more attention to her than others in front of friends
46. Look her in the eyes while you listen to her talk
47. Buy her a small gift - like a box of chocolates or perfume
48. Buy her some decorations (give her a photo to the clerk to help her choose the right decorations for her)
49. Take photos of her on special occasions
50. Hold an umbrella for her when it rains
51. Laugh appropriately at her jokes
52. Help her carry her things after shopping
53. Surprise her with a love note or poem
54. You drive on long trips
55. Drive slowly, stay safe, and respect her choices. After all, she is sitting in the dangerous front seat.
56. Pay attention to her feelings and say "You look happy today" or "You look tired today" and then ask questions like: How was your day?
57. When you take her out, teach her to recognize directions so she doesn’t feel responsible for them.
58. Take her dancing or take dance lessons together
59. Write short notes or signs for special occasions, such as anniversaries and birthdays
60. Treat her like you did when you were just starting the relationship
61. When listening to her talk, make some "umm", "humm", "ahh" and "oh" sounds to let her know that you are interested in what she is talking about.
62. Go on a romantic getaway
63. Buy some good super glue and fix broken things
64. If a light bulb is broken, replace it as soon as possible.
65. Help with garbage collection
66. Read aloud or cut out the part of the newspaper that interests her
67. Write down the phone message she left for you neatly.
68. Keep the bathroom floor clean and dry after showering
69. If she normally washes the dishes, do it occasionally, especially if she is tired.
70. When staying in a hotel, ask the hotel to prepare something special, such as a bottle of champagne, apple juice, or a bouquet of bright flowers.
71. Carry heavy bags for her
72. When traveling, you are responsible for carrying the luggage and putting it in the car.
73. Help her wash the pots or do other difficult tasks while she is washing dishes
74. Make a "repair" list and put it in the kitchen. Whenever you have extra time, do some of the things on the list for her. Don't put it off.
75. When she prepares dinner, compliment her on her cooking.
76. Treat her as more important than your child. Let your child see that she is the first one to attract your attention and attention.
77. Touch her occasionally while you are talking to her
78. Show interest in what she did that day, the books she read, the phone calls she took.
79. Repair broken things in the house, ask "Is there anything in the house that needs repairing?" I still have time
80. Make the bed and clean the bedroom
81. If she usually cooks dinner, or she is too busy or tired, please take the initiative to cook dinner.
82. When she is tired, make her a cup of tea
83. Go to bed at the same time as her
84. Kiss her goodbye before leaving
85. Hug her four times a day
86. Give her 20 minutes of focused time every day (no newspaper reading or distractions)
87. If she washes the socks, turn them inside out so she doesn’t have to do the whole process.
88. Spend more time alone together
89. Don’t answer the phone during an intimate moment or when she is sharing vulnerable feelings
90. Even if the distance is short, we should walk together
91. Plan a picnic
92. Gather the dirty clothes beside the washing machine while she operates it.
93. Take her for a walk
94. Tell her in a negotiating manner that you want her to get what she wants and you want what you want, but be careful not to be a lecturer.
95. Let her know you miss her when you are away from home
96. Bring her home her favorite pie or dessert
97. If she usually does the grocery shopping, go grocery shopping with her when you are free.
98. Don’t ignore her feelings during sex
99. Don’t fall asleep right after sex, kiss and caress each other afterwards
100. Don’t wet the seat cover when you pee |
