There are two types of sex games: The first is sexual activity intended to induce sexual intercourse, mainly referring to sexual caressing. This is an essential and important step before sexual intercourse. The ancient Chinese had a deep understanding of this, and they called sexual intercourse "xidao". Books on sexual techniques such as "Dong Xuan Zi" and "Mi Xi Tu Kao" specifically discuss various sexual techniques. The reason why Westerners have now abandoned the term "sexual intercourse" and replaced it with "making love" is that they believe that sexual life between couples without caressing is vulgar and intolerable. Sexual caress is intentional physical contact that attempts to induce sexual arousal; it can be divided into at least three categories: one is lip kissing; the second is oral behavior, including tongue kissing, oral stimulation of the breasts, and oral stimulation of the sexual organs; the third is manual behavior, including hugging, caressing the body, hand stimulation of the breasts, and hand stimulation of the sexual organs. The second is sexual activity that may or may not lead to sexual intercourse. There are many types of this kind of sex games, and each has its own emphasis depending on the country and nationality. For example, Africans prefer flirtatious dancing, Europeans love to make sexual jokes, say sweet words, tear and bite, and play in the water, and Asians enjoy playing and flirting, etc. Here are some sexual games that are more suitable for most couples in my country. One is baby games. Both husband and wife can pretend to be children and look at each other's bodies and sexual organs with great "curiosity"; they can also murmur like babies to stimulate each other's maternal or paternal love. The husband can lie in his wife's arms like a son and be "willful, naughty and wild", fiddling with and sucking his wife's nipples. For a wife without children, her husband's sucking melts her desire for future children into tenderness for her husband. For a wife who already has children, the gentle touch of her husband's lips evokes all kinds of happy memories of feeding her children in the past. A wife can throw herself into her husband's arms like a daughter, act coquettishly and throw tantrums, seeking "protection and security". This will make her husband feel satisfied with being needed and arouse his desire to protect and love him. The wife can also do some charming actions to arouse her husband's sexual interest. In this regard, the ancient Chinese concluded that if a woman has a charming look, three or four points of beauty can be equivalent to six or seven points of beauty. Women who make people think about them endlessly and are willing to follow them at all costs often have a kind of "charm". |